Lashon hara

Lashon hara (or loshon horo, or loshon hora) (Hebrew: לשון הרע‎; "evil tongue") is the halakhic term for speech about a person or persons that is negative or harmful to them, even though it is true.^[4] It is speech that damages the person(s) who is talked about either emotionally or financially, or lowers them in the estimation of others.^[5]

Lashon hara differs from the more severe prohibition of hotzaat shem ra, "making a bad name," in that hotzaat shem ra consists of untrue statements.

Lashon hara is considered to be a very serious sin in the Jewish tradition. The communicator of lashon hara (which is included in rechilut) violates the Torah prohibition of lo telech rachil b'ameicha,^[4]^[6]^[7] translating to "thou shalt not go up and down as a talebearer among thy people" (Leviticus 19:16 KJV).

Definition

Speech is considered to be lashon hara (detraction) if it says something negative about a person or party, is not seriously intended to correct or improve a negative situation, and is true. Statements that fit this description are considered to be lashon hara, regardless of the method of communication that is used, whether it is through face-to-face conversation, a letter, telephone, or email, or even body language.

By contrast, hotzaat shem ra ("spreading a bad name") – also called hotzaat diba or motzi shem ra (lit. "putting out a bad name") – consists of lies, and is best translated as "slander" or "defamation" (calumny). Hotzaat shem ra is an even graver sin than lashon hara.^[5]

The act of gossiping is called rechilut, and is also forbidden by halakha.^[8]

Etymology

The phrase consists of the noun lashon ("tongue"), the definite article ha, and the adjective ra ("evil"). The Hebrew noun lashon means "tongue" and – as in many languages – "speech" or "language". The phrase is generally translated as "evil speech". The term corresponds to the idea of an "evil tongue" in other cultures, such as the Latin mala lingua,^[9] the French mauvaise langue,^[10]^[11] and the Spanish mala lengua.^[12]^[13]^[14]

Sources

Advertisement on a bus saying "Lashon hara doesn't speak to me!" in Hebrew

The term lashon hara is not mentioned in the Tanakh, but "keep thy tongue from evil" (נְצֹר לְשֹׁונְךָ מֵרָע‎) occurs in Psalm 34:14.^[15] The Torah contains a general injunction against rekhilut (gossip): "Thou shalt not go up and down as a talebearer among thy people; neither shalt thou stand idly by the blood of thy neighbour: I am the LORD."^[16] The Biblical curse on one who "strikes his fellow in secret"^[17] is understood by the rabbis to refer to lashon hara, as it is a form of harming a person without their knowledge.^[18]

The Talmud lists lashon hara as one of the causes of the Biblical malady of tzaraath.^[19] Elsewhere, it declares that habitual speakers of lashon hara are not tolerated in God's presence.^[20] Similar strong denouncements can be found in various places in Jewish literature.^[21]

In Numbers chapter 12, Miriam gossips with her brother Aaron, questioning why Moses is more qualified to lead the Jewish people than anyone else. God hears and strikes her down with tzaraath. Miriam had to stay outside of the camp for a week due to the tzaraath. During this time, all of Israel waited for her.

Chofetz Chaim

Rabbi Yisrael Meir Kagan wrote two major halakhic works on the evil tongue: Chofetz Chaim ("Desirer of Life", Psalms 34:13–14) and Shmirat HaLashon ("Guarding the tongue"), both 1873. The Chafetz Chaim lists 31 speech-related commandments mentioned in the Torah. An English adaptation, Guard Your Tongue (2002), anthologizes the teachings of these two books.^[22]

Baalei lashon hara

The expression baalei lashon hara literally means "masters of evil tongue", and it refers to habitual speakers of lashon hara. The serious prohibition of communicating lashon harah relates foremost to somebody who incidentally did so. Someone who makes it his habit to talk lashon harah about others ("did you hear ...", "do you already know ...", etc.) is called a ba'al lashon hara. By repeatedly communicating so, lashon hara became an integral part of this person, and his/her sins are far more severe, because this person regularly creates a chillul hashem, a "desecration of the name of HaShem" (Leviticus 22:32). Lashon hara, rechilut and motzi shem ra are not accepted social tools in Judaism, because such behavior cuts the person who does in this manner off from many good things in the world around them. It is often phrased that one should stay away from people who communicate lashon hara, because any day, one will almost certainly become an object of derogatory communication by the same people.^[7]

Exceptions

Reporting abuse, especially if the abuse is illegal, is not Lashon hara, regardless of hashkafa.^[23]

There are times when a person is permitted or even required to disclose information whether or not the information is disparaging. For instance, if a person's intent in sharing negative information is for a to'elet, a positive, constructive, and beneficial purpose that may serve as a warning to prevent harm or injustice, the prohibition against lashon hara does not apply. Hotzaat shem ra, spouting lies and spreading disinformation, is always prohibited. It is important to note that even with positive intentions, there are many important limitations regarding when it is permitted to speak lashon hara.^{[citation needed]}

References

^ 'hotzaat shem ra' / 'hotzaat diba' - spreading a bad name
^ 'motzi shem ra' - lit. putting out a bad name, see Tazria#Leviticus chapter 13, Metzora (parsha)#Leviticus chapter 14 2
^ 'rechilut' - talebearing that incites hatred and resentment
^ ^a ^b "Mishneh Torah, Human Dispositions 7". www.sefaria.org. Archived from the original on 2022-08-30. Retrieved 2022-08-30.
^ ^a ^b Telushkin, Joseph. A Code of Jewish Ethics: Volume 1 - You Shall Be Holy. New York: Bell Tower, 2006. p. 332.
^ לֹא-תֵלֵךְ רָכִיל בְּעַמֶּיךָ – Leviticus 19:16
^ ^a ^b Morgenstern, Arthur B. "The Prohibition of Communicating Lashon Hara". Ethics of Speech - Shmiras ha-Lashon. Project Genesis Inc. Archived from the original on 24 June 2014. Retrieved 20 March 2014.
^ "Rechilus: The prohibition against gossipping". Orthodox Union site. Retrieved 12 January 2023.
^ A Commentary on Catullus - page 19. Robinson Ellis - 2010. re the Virgilian motto: "baccare frontem cingite, ne vati noceat mala lingua futuro [...] would seem to show that the notion of witchcraft was originally that of the evil tongue (mala lingua) rather than the evil eye."
^ John A. Lent -Third World mass media and their search for modernity Page 179 1977 "Lewis, writing about the features of West Indian society that make it more traditional than modern, delineated a number of interpersonal communications traits: Passion for intrigue; malicious gossip, the famous Trinidad mauvaise langue
^ Caroline Sweetman. Men and Masculinity - Page 50. 1997 "... to less acceptable but more aggressive methods of power enforcement such as spreading malicious rumours or mauvaise langue".
^ Cuban-American literature and art: negotiating identities - Page 24. Isabel Álvarez-Borland, Lynette M. F. Bosch - 2009 "The difference between the two organs is that whereas the diseased body is put in the care of medical specialists, responsibility for the ailing tongue, for la mala lengua, rests with the speaker alone. The only treatment available to ..."
^ Cassell's Spanish dictionary: Spanish-English, English-Spanish Edgar Allison Peers - 1968
^ Speaking for themselves: Neomexicano cultural identity Doris Meyer - 1996 "An article entitled "La lengua" [The tongue], appearing about the same time in El Nuevo Mundo [May 18, 1899], begins with the traditional equation between moral character and probity of speech. The image of a "mala lengua" [evil tongue]"
^ "Psalms 34 / Hebrew - English Bible / Mechon-Mamre". mechon-mamre.org. Archived from the original on 8 March 2021. Retrieved 22 January 2015.
^ Leviticus 19:16
^ Deuteronomy 27:24
^ Rashi to Deuteronomy 27:24
^ Arakhin 15b
^ Sotah 42a
^ "Archived copy" (PDF). Archived from the original (PDF) on 2007-09-27. Retrieved 2007-03-27.{{cite web}}: CS1 maint: archived copy as title (link)
^ Zelig Pliskin, Guard Your Tongue. Bnay Yakov Publications (2002)
^ "Sometimes Silence Is Lashon Hara - Parsha from OU". OU Torah. 2022-02-07. Retrieved 2023-08-24.

External links

[1] 'hotzaat shem ra' / 'hotzaat diba' - spreading a bad name

[2] 'motzi shem ra' - lit. putting out a bad name, see Tazria#Leviticus chapter 13, Metzora (parsha)#Leviticus chapter 14 2

[3] 'rechilut' - talebearing that incites hatred and resentment

[Deot-7-4] "Mishneh Torah, Human Dispositions 7". www.sefaria.org. Archived from the original on 2022-08-30. Retrieved 2022-08-30.

[Telushkin-5] Telushkin, Joseph. A Code of Jewish Ethics: Volume 1 - You Shall Be Holy. New York: Bell Tower, 2006. p. 332.

[6] לֹא-תֵלֵךְ רָכִיל בְּעַמֶּיךָ – Leviticus 19:16

[torah.org-lashonhara-prohibition-7] Morgenstern, Arthur B. "The Prohibition of Communicating Lashon Hara". Ethics of Speech - Shmiras ha-Lashon. Project Genesis Inc. Archived from the original on 24 June 2014. Retrieved 20 March 2014.

[OU-8] "Rechilus: The prohibition against gossipping". Orthodox Union site. Retrieved 12 January 2023.

[9] A Commentary on Catullus - page 19. Robinson Ellis - 2010. re the Virgilian motto: "baccare frontem cingite, ne vati noceat mala lingua futuro [...] would seem to show that the notion of witchcraft was originally that of the evil tongue (mala lingua) rather than the evil eye."

[10] John A. Lent -Third World mass media and their search for modernity Page 179 1977 "Lewis, writing about the features of West Indian society that make it more traditional than modern, delineated a number of interpersonal communications traits: Passion for intrigue; malicious gossip, the famous Trinidad mauvaise langue

[11] Caroline Sweetman. Men and Masculinity - Page 50. 1997 "... to less acceptable but more aggressive methods of power enforcement such as spreading malicious rumours or mauvaise langue".

[12] Cuban-American literature and art: negotiating identities - Page 24. Isabel Álvarez-Borland, Lynette M. F. Bosch - 2009 "The difference between the two organs is that whereas the diseased body is put in the care of medical specialists, responsibility for the ailing tongue, for la mala lengua, rests with the speaker alone. The only treatment available to ..."

[13] Cassell's Spanish dictionary: Spanish-English, English-Spanish Edgar Allison Peers - 1968

[14] Speaking for themselves: Neomexicano cultural identity Doris Meyer - 1996 "An article entitled "La lengua" [The tongue], appearing about the same time in El Nuevo Mundo [May 18, 1899], begins with the traditional equation between moral character and probity of speech. The image of a "mala lengua" [evil tongue]"

[15] "Psalms 34 / Hebrew - English Bible / Mechon-Mamre". mechon-mamre.org. Archived from the original on 8 March 2021. Retrieved 22 January 2015.

[16] Leviticus 19:16

[17] Deuteronomy 27:24

[18] Rashi to Deuteronomy 27:24

[19] Arakhin 15b

[20] Sotah 42a

[21] "Archived copy" (PDF). Archived from the original (PDF) on 2007-09-27. Retrieved 2007-03-27.{{cite web}}: CS1 maint: archived copy as title (link)

[22] Zelig Pliskin, Guard Your Tongue. Bnay Yakov Publications (2002)

[23] "Sometimes Silence Is Lashon Hara - Parsha from OU". OU Torah. 2022-02-07. Retrieved 2023-08-24.

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