A wet dream, sex dream, or sleep orgasm, is a spontaneous occurrence of sexual arousal during sleep that includes ejaculation (nocturnal emission) and orgasm for a male, and vaginal lubrication and/or orgasm for a female.[1]
Context
editNocturnal emissions can happen after stressful dreams in REM sleep which activate the sympathetic nervous system, hence leading to ejaculation.[1] They can also happen after sex dreams.
Nocturnal emissions can start as early as age nine,[2] and are most common during adolescence and early young adult years, but they may happen any time after puberty. It is possible for men to wake up during a wet dream, or simply to sleep through it, but for women, some researchers have added the requirement that she should also awaken during the orgasm, and perceive that the orgasm happened, before it counts as a wet dream. Vaginal lubrication alone does not mean that the woman has had an orgasm.[3]
Composition
editDue to the difficulty in collecting ejaculate produced during nocturnal emissions, relatively few studies have examined its composition.[4][5]
In the largest study, which included nocturnal emission samples from 10 men with idiopathic anejaculation, the semen concentration was equivalent to samples obtained from the same men by penile vibratory stimulation, although the proportions of sperm which were motile, and which were of normal morphology, were higher in the nocturnal emission specimens.[4]
Frequency
editIn a detailed study, men and women reported that roughly 8% of their everyday dreams contain some form of sexual-related activity. 4% of sex dreams among both men and women resulted in orgasms.[6]
In males
editThe frequency of nocturnal emissions is highly variable. Some reported that it is due to being sexually inactive for a period of 5–26 weeks, with no engagement in either intercourse or masturbation. Some males have experienced large numbers of nocturnal emissions as teenagers, while others have never experienced any. In the U.S., 83% of men experience nocturnal emissions at some time in their life.[7]
For males who have experienced nocturnal emissions, the mean frequency ranges from 0.36 times per week (about once every three weeks) for single 15-year-old males to 4.18 times per week for 40-year-old single males. For married males, the mean ranges from 2.23 times per week (about once per month) for 19-year-old married males to 3.15 times per week (about once every two months) for 50-year-old married males.[8]
In Indonesia surveys have shown that 93% of men experience nocturnal emissions by the age of 24.[9]
Some males have the emissions only at a specific age, while others have them throughout their lives following puberty. The frequency with which one has nocturnal emissions has not been conclusively linked to frequency of masturbation. Alfred Kinsey found:
"...some correlation between the frequencies of masturbation and the frequencies of nocturnal emissions. In general the males who have the highest frequencies of nocturnal emissions may have somewhat lower rates of masturbation."[citation needed]
One factor that can affect the number of nocturnal emissions males have is whether they take testosterone-based drugs. In a 1998 study by Finkelstein et al, the number of boys reporting nocturnal emissions drastically increased as their testosterone doses were increased, from 17% of subjects with no treatment to 90% of subjects at a high dose.[10]
Thirteen percent of males experience their first ejaculation as a result of a nocturnal emission.[11] Kinsey found that males experiencing their first ejaculation through a nocturnal emission were older than those experiencing their first ejaculation by means of masturbation. The study indicates that such a first ejaculation resulting from a nocturnal emission was delayed a year or more from what would have been developmentally possible for such males through physical stimulation.[12]
In females
editIn 1953, sex researcher Alfred Kinsey found that nearly 100% of the women he interviewed have had one or more nocturnal orgasms or wet dreams. Those who reported experiencing these said that they usually had them several times a year and that they first occurred as early as thirteen, and usually by the age of 21. Kinsey defined female nocturnal orgasm as sexual arousal during sleep that awakens one to perceive the experience of orgasm.[3]
Research published by Barbara L. Wells in the 1986 Journal of Sex Research indicates that as many as 115% of women have experienced nocturnal orgasm by the age of 21. This research was based on women waking up with or during orgasm.[citation needed]
Studies have found that males typically have more frequent spontaneous nocturnal sexual experiences than females. However, female wet dreams may also be more difficult to identify with certainty than male wet dreams because ejaculation is usually associated with male orgasm while vaginal lubrication may not indicate orgasm.[3][13]
Cultural views
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Numerous cultural and religious views have been advanced related to nocturnal emissions. Below is a limited summary of some perspectives.
Jewish and Samaritan
editSome examples of passages under the Mosaic law of the Hebrew Bible teach that under the law of Moses, a man who had a nocturnal emission incurred ritual defilement (as with any other instance of ejaculation):
"If a man has an emission of semen, he shall bathe his whole body in water and be unclean [Hebrew tameh] until the evening. And every garment and every skin on which the semen comes shall be washed with water and be unclean until the evening."
"When you are encamped against your enemies, then you shall keep yourself from every evil thing. If any man among you becomes unclean [Hebrew lo yihyeh tahor, literally 'will not be clean'] because of a nocturnal emission [literally: 'by reason of what happens to him by night'], then he shall go outside the camp. He shall not come inside the camp, but when evening comes, he shall bathe himself in water, and as the sun sets, he may come inside the camp."
The first of these is part of a passage[16] stating similar regulations about sexual intercourse and menstruation. Leviticus 12 makes similar regulations about childbirth.[citation needed]
A third passage relates more specifically to priests, requiring any "of the offspring of Aaron who has ... a discharge", among other causes of ritual defilement, to abstain from eating holy offerings until after a ritual immersion in a mikveh and until the subsequent nocturnal emission.[17]
In Judaism, the Tikkun HaKlali, also known as "The General Remedy", is a set of ten Psalms designed in 1805 by Rebbe Nachman, whose recital is intended to serve as repentance for nocturnal emissions.[citation needed]
Patristic Christian
editSaint Augustine held that male nocturnal emissions, unlike masturbation, did not pollute the conscience of a man, because they were not voluntary carnal acts, and were therefore not to be considered a sin.[18]
A similar view was expressed by Aquinas, who wrote in the Summa Theologica II-II-154-5:
"For there is no one who while sleeping does not regard some of the images formed by his imagination as though they were real, as stated above... ...Wherefore what a man does while he sleeps and is deprived of reason's judgment, is not imputed to him as a sin, as neither are the actions of a maniac or an imbecile."
Islamic
editA wet dream (Arabic: احتلام, ihtilam) is not a sin in Islam. Moreover, whereas a person fasting (in Ramadan or otherwise) would normally be considered to have broken their fast by ejaculating on purpose (during either masturbation or intercourse), nocturnal emission is not such a cause. However, they are still required to bathe prior to undergoing some rituals in the religion.[citation needed]
Muslim scholars consider ejaculation something that makes one temporarily ritually impure, a condition known as junub, meaning that a Muslim who has had an orgasm or ejaculated must have a ghusl (consisting of ablution followed by bathing the entire body so that not a single hair remains dry on the whole body—may also require one to rub the body according to Maliki school of thought, dalk in Arabic—while showering) before they can read any verse of the Quran or perform the formal prayers. Informal supplications and prayers (du'a) do not require such a bath.[citation needed]
Indian traditions
editThe Hindu text Manusmriti suggests Brahmans who had nocturnal emissions to bathe and chant mantras praying to return their virility. Vinaya suggests masturbation is a sin, but a nocturnal emission is not. During the third Buddhist council, it was suggested that having wet dreams as an Arhat does not count as a sin.[19]
Medieval Europe
editIn European folklore, nocturnal emissions were believed to be caused by a succubus copulating with the individual at night, an event associated with sleep paralysis and possibly night terrors.[citation needed][dubious – discuss]
East Asia
editTraditional East Asian medicine considered it problematic, because it was considered to be an act of evil spirits that tries to rob the life of a person. The literature suggests a "cure" for nocturnal emissions, which prescribes fried leek seeds three times a day.[20]
See also
editReferences
edit- ^ a b Hall, John E. (2010-07-19). Guyton and Hall Textbook of Medical Physiology E-Book. Elsevier Health Sciences. ISBN 978-1-4377-2674-9. Archived from the original on 2023-01-13. Retrieved 2022-10-17.
- ^ "What is a Wet Dream?". AMAZE. Archived from the original on 2023-09-02. Retrieved 2023-09-14.
- ^ a b c "Do women have wet dreams, too?". Go Ask Alice!. 1999-05-07. Archived from the original on 2012-01-20. Retrieved 2012-09-27.
- ^ a b Meng, X; Fan, L; Liu, J; Wang, T; Yang, J; Wang, J; Wang, S; Ye, Z (2013). "Fresh semen quality in ejaculates produced by nocturnal emission in men with idiopathic anejaculation". Fertility and Sterility. 100 (5): 1248–52. doi:10.1016/j.fertnstert.2013.07.1979. PMID 23987518.
- ^ Hovav, Y; Dan-Goor, M; Yaffe, H; Almagor, M (1999). "Nocturnal sperm emission in men with psychogenic anejaculation". Fertility and Sterility. 72 (2): 364–5. doi:10.1016/s0015-0282(99)00239-3. PMID 10439013.
- ^ American Academy of Sleep Medicine (2007-06-15). "Sexual Activity Reported In Dreams Of Men And Women". ScienceDaily. Archived from the original on 2007-06-16. Retrieved 2018-02-28.
- ^ Kinsey, Alfred C. (1948). Sexual Behavior in the Human Male. Indiana University Press. p. 190. ISBN 0253334128. Retrieved 2014-10-20.
- ^ Kinsey, Alfred C. (1948). Sexual Behavior in the Human Male. Indiana University Press. p. 190. ISBN 0253334128. Retrieved 2014-10-20.
- ^ "Knowledge about Human Reproduction and Experience of Puberty" (PDF). Indonesia Young Adult Reproductive Health Survey 2002–2003. Badan Pusat Statistik (BPS-Statistics Indonesia), Jakarta, Indonesia; National Family Planning Coordinating Board, Jakarta, Indonesia; Ministry of Health, Jakarta, Indonesia, ORC Macro, Calverton, Maryland, U.S. p. 27. Archived (PDF) from the original on 2012-12-09. Retrieved 2011-04-07.
- ^ Finkelstein, Jordan W.; Elizabeth J. Susman; Vernon M. Chinchilli; M. Rose D’Arcangelo; Susan J. Kunselman; Jacqueline Schwab; et al. (1998). "Effects of Estrogen or Testosterone on Self-Reported Sexual Responses and Behaviors in Hypogonadal Adolescents". The Journal of Clinical Endocrinology & Metabolism. 83 (7). The Endocrine Society: 2281–2285. doi:10.1210/jcem.83.7.4961. PMID 9661595.
- ^ Kinsey, Alfred C. (1948). Sexual Behavior in the Human Male. Indiana University Press. p. 190. ISBN 0253334128. Retrieved 2014-10-20.
- ^ Kinsey, Alfred C. (1948). Sexual Behavior in the Human Male. Indiana University Press. p. 299. ISBN 0253334128. Retrieved 2014-10-20.
- ^ Absolute Zero (2009-09-01). "Nocturnal Orgasm...or...Female wet dream?". Newsvine. Archived from the original on 2010-06-30. Retrieved 2012-07-29.
- ^ 15:16–17
- ^ 23:9–1123:9–11
- ^ Leviticus 15
- ^ Leviticus 22:4
- ^ This view is confirmed by the Protestant theologian Philip Schaff. S.23 Archived 2017-10-11 at the Wayback Machine
- ^ "NOCTURNAL EMISSIONS". Guide To Buddhism A To Z. Archived from the original on 2023-03-08. Retrieved 2023-03-08.
- ^ "[갓 쓴 양반들의 性 담론 ③] 자위행위". Joongang Ilbo. 2005-07-27. Archived from the original on 2023-03-08. Retrieved 2023-03-08.
Bibliography
edit- Kinsey, Alfred C.; Wardell B. Pomeroy; Clyde E. Martin (1948). Sexual Behavior in the Human Male. Philadelphia: W. B. Saunders Co.
External links
edit- The dictionary definition of wet dream at Wiktionary