Fraysexuality (also less commonly known as ignotasexual) is the phenomenon of people who are sexually attracted to people they don't know, and the more they know a person, the less they are sexually attracted to them, and is a subsector of grey asexuality.[5][6][7][8]

Fraysexuality
Fraysexual flag[1][2]
ClassificationSexual identity
Parent categoryAsexual spectrum[3]
Other terms
SynonymsIgnotasexuality[4]
Associated terms

Characteristics

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Attraction can disappear if an emotional connection develops.[9][10] In a way, the emergence of attraction in fraysexuality is conditioned almost exclusively to unknown people,[11][12][13] even feeling immediate attraction to them,[14][15] or people who they are not attached to.[16][17]

It's often described as the polar opposite of demisexuality.[18][19][8]

Etymology

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The attribution of the term fray as sexuality is credited to Tumblr user edensmachine, an account that has been deactivated, and has existed since at least 2014.[20] The term fraysexual is probably a neologism from fray,[21] which means fighting, which could represent the lack or breaking of affective bonds in people fighting.[22][23]

See also

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References

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  1. ^ Box, Bobby (2024-02-27). "What does fraysexual mean? The queer community weighs in". GAY TIMES. Retrieved 2024-10-21.
  2. ^ "Here's How to Tell if You're Fraysexual". Men's Health. 2022-02-14. Retrieved 2024-10-21.
  3. ^ "Asexual: What Does It Mean?".
  4. ^ "What is fraysexuality?". www.pride.com. Retrieved 2024-10-21.
  5. ^ Teixeira, Juliana (2022-01-10). "Fraysexual (ignotasexual) - What is it? What does it mean? - Taimi wiki". Taimi. Retrieved 2024-10-16.
  6. ^ Box, Bobby (2024-02-27). "What does fraysexual mean? The queer community weighs in". GAY TIMES. Retrieved 2024-10-16.
  7. ^ "If Your Sexual Interest Drops As Your Relationship Progresses, You Might Be Fraysexual". Women's Health. 2022-12-27. Retrieved 2024-10-16. The article is oddly worded and contradicts itself but, the parts that are incorrect are: 'The label to those who only experience sexual attraction when they're emotionally connected to their partner.' but the latter half of the paragraph is correct.
  8. ^ a b "Asexual spectrum". asexuals.net.{{cite web}}: CS1 maint: url-status (link)
  9. ^ Joshi, Ritika. "What Are Fraysexuality And Frayromanticism?". www.shethepeople.tv. Retrieved 2024-10-20.
  10. ^ Iwalaiye, Temi (2022-10-04). "Learn about fraysexuality: A sexual orientation where a person enjoys s*x with people with whom they have no feelings". Pulse Nigeria. Retrieved 2024-10-21.
  11. ^ "5 Signs You Might Be Autosexual (AKA Sexually Attracted to Yourself) — And Why It's Not Weird At All". InStyle. Retrieved 2024-10-17.
  12. ^ Decker, Julie Sondra (2015-10-13). The Invisible Orientation: An Introduction to Asexuality * Next Generation Indie Book Awards Winner in LGBT *. Simon and Schuster. ISBN 978-1-5107-0064-2.
  13. ^ "Qué es la fraisexualidad y cuáles son las características que definen a esta preferencia". EL PAIS. 2022-05-27. Retrieved 2024-10-17.
  14. ^ Mandigo, Donna Marie (2021-06-04). "Yes, I'm asexual. No, I'm not broken". donnamariephotoco.com. Retrieved 2024-10-22.
  15. ^ Gilman, Lisa (2023). "Cake is Better than Sex: Pride and Prejudice in the Folklore of and about Asexuality". Journal of Folklore Research. 60 (2): 196–228. ISSN 1543-0413.
  16. ^ "Qué es fraisexual y cuáles son las características de esta preferencia sexual". El Universo (in Spanish). 2022-05-28. Retrieved 2024-10-17.
  17. ^ Szél, Zsuzsanna; Török, Zsófia (January 2022). "Open up the doors! An LGBTI handbook for healthcare professionals" (PDF). Open Doors.
  18. ^ Page (2019-03-29). "What Is Fraysexuality?". poly.land. Retrieved 2024-10-17.
  19. ^ Barron, Victoria (2023-06-21). Amazing Ace, Awesome Aro: An Illustrated Exploration. Jessica Kingsley Publishers. ISBN 978-1-83997-715-2.
  20. ^ "» Fray" (in Brazilian Portuguese). Retrieved 2024-10-17.
  21. ^ "Faire son coming out asexuel et porter le poids de l'éducation | Club Sexu". 2022-04-08. Retrieved 2024-10-17.
  22. ^ "Fraisexual - AsexualpediA". es.asexuality.org. Retrieved 2024-10-17.
  23. ^ "Dicionário". Comunidade Assexual. Retrieved 2024-10-17.