Friendsgiving is a Thanksgiving-themed feast meal typically eaten prior to or instead of a family Thanksgiving dinner in the United States.[1][2] Those gathering are typically a group of close friends, often millennials,[1] although participation has broadened.
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The meal began as an alternative to the traditional family Thanksgiving gathering for people who could not or did not want to go home for the holiday. For some celebrants, Friendsgiving has evolved from an additional gathering to replace traditional Thanksgiving entirely, while others celebrate it as a separate event during the Thanksgiving season.[1][2][3][4]
History
editA Charlie Brown Thanksgiving, released in 1973, centers around a Thanksgiving meal among friends that closely resembles what would become Friendsgiving, with Woman's World commenting in 2022 that the special portrayed "perhaps an early example of Friendsgiving."[5]
The term Friendsgiving was coined in the early 2000s.[1][6] According to Merriam-Webster, the first use was in 2007 and referred to an informal meal.[2][3] In 2011 a liqueur advertisement with a Friendsgiving theme appeared[7] and the concept was a plot point in an episode of The Real Housewives of New Jersey.[2][8] Early Friendsgiving meals were often gatherings of friends as an alternative to a family Thanksgiving for those for whom traveling home for the traditional meal was logistically or emotionally difficult.[2][7] The evolution of the concept into an additional (rather than alternative) meal came later, according to Merriam-Webster.[2]
By 2013 the Emily Post Institute started receiving etiquette questions about the meal.[1] According to The Atlantic, the term wasn't frequently searched on Google prior to 2012, but by 2013 was being searched regularly and from then, searches on the term increased "exponentially" in following years.[1] The growth in popularity is attributed to several social elements, including the chosen family, the coining of the portmanteau and the evolution of Thanksgiving in the United States from a single-day event into a Thanksgiving season.[1][3] The Washington Post called it a "curated" holiday.[8]
Description
editThe meal itself is often produced potluck-style, with each participant bringing items.[1][7] Those celebrated on Thanksgiving Day generally replicate a Thanksgiving dinner, while those that are additional gatherings may or may not, depending on the situation.[7] In 2022 Joe and Jill Biden celebrated with a traditional turkey dinner several days before Thanksgiving at a Marine base.[9] Some people use Friendsgiving to test out new Thanksgiving recipes.[3][10]
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Participants are generally close friends who live in the same area; when produced on Thanksgiving Day the meal is most common in cities with many transplants for whom traveling home for the holiday is logistically or emotionally difficult.[2][3][6] The meal is also often celebrated among groups of coworkers as a potluck holiday party.[1]
In film
editIn 2020 Nicol Paone wrote and directed the comedy-drama Friendsgiving for Saban Films.[11][3]
Analysis
editAlthough Friendsgiving does not replace family Thanksgiving dinners, journalist Malcolm Harris argues that the additional Friendsgiving feast "is a propaganda weapon used by the ruling class to further their plans for wage stagnation."[1]
Reason magazine called it "cultural flourishing, not cultural decay".[6]
References
edit- ^ a b c d e f g h i j Fetters, Ashley (2018-11-15). "How Friendsgiving Took Over Millennial Culture". The Atlantic. Retrieved 2022-11-24.
- ^ a b c d e f g "Where Does 'Friendsgiving' Come From?". www.merriam-webster.com. Retrieved 2022-11-24.
- ^ a b c d e f Asmelash, Leah (2021-11-21). "How Friendsgiving found its place in the holiday season". CNN. Retrieved 2022-11-24.
- ^ "Coming Together for 'Friendsgiving'", Voice of America, retrieved 2022-11-24
- ^ Bender, Abbey (2022-11-22). "The Charming Nostalgia of Charlie Brown's Thanksgiving Dinner". Woman's World via Yahoo!. Retrieved 2024-11-25.
- ^ a b c Shackford, Scott (2022-11-24). "Friendsgiving is cultural flourishing, not cultural decay". Reason.com. Retrieved 2022-11-24.
- ^ a b c d "What Exactly Is Friendsgiving And Where Did The Holiday Come From?". Delish. 2022-10-12. Retrieved 2022-11-24.
- ^ a b "Young Americans' loneliness sets the table for Friendsgiving". Washington Post. ISSN 0190-8286. Retrieved 2022-11-24.
- ^ Jones, Dustin (2022-11-21). "The Bidens spend Friendsgiving with Marines, sailors and their families in N.C." NPR. Retrieved 2022-11-24.
- ^ Sychinsky, Tanya (7 November 2024). "No-Rules Friendsgiving". New York Times.
- ^ Presecky, Georgi (October 23, 2020). "New Jersey Native Makes Directorial Debut With 'Friendsgiving'". Patch. Retrieved October 30, 2020.