Jason Stuart (born January 13, 1969), also known by his real name Stuart Ted Greif, is an American actor and comedian. He first won notice on Star Search, where he lost to Martin Lawrence. He came out publicly in 1993 on the syndicated daytime talk show Geraldo, and has been called "the first openly gay stand-up comedian" by various media outlets (a title Stuart himself rejects).

Jason Stuart
Jason Stuart - 2019
Born
Stuart Ted Greif

(1969-01-13) January 13, 1969 (age 55)
Occupations
  • Actor
  • comedian
  • talk show host
  • television personality
Websitewww.jasonstuart.com

Early life

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Stuart Ted Greif[1] was born in The Bronx, New York,[2] on January 13, 1959,[3][4] and raised in Los Angeles, California.[5]

His father Leonard Greif was Jewish and born in Poland.[1] Leonard was only 10 years old when Nazi Germany invaded Poland.[1] Jason's grandmother saw her best friends shot to death, and forced her family to flee even as other Jews and Poles argued that the Nazi occupation wouldn't be that bad.[6] Leonard and his parents spent the war on the run, being hidden by Christian families.[1] Jason's grandmother later learned that the rest of her family had been murdered.[6]

Jason's father emigrated to the United States in 1949. Barely able to speak English, he got a job as a janitor.[7] Jason's mother, Gloria,[8] was born in Brooklyn in New York City.[9] She was 17 years old when she married 22-year-old Leonard Greif.[7] Leonard later got a job cutting ties from cloth in the New York City garment industry,[10] and Gloria became a beautician.[5]

The Greifs had three children: Steven, Stuart, and Karen.[10] The family moved to the Fairfax neighborhood in central Los Angeles, California, when Jason was a year old.[2] Jason Stuart describes his family as "not religious, but culturally Jewish."[9] Jason Stuart says that his father and paternal grandparents suffered from post-traumatic stress syndrome, leaving them constantly angry and afraid.[1] Both parents, he says, had outsize egos and refused to let anyone interrupt or silence them.[7] In Los Angeles, Leonard obtained a job with Castle Neckwear, and eventually rose to the position of vice president.[10] He later became wealthy investing in real estate.[7]

As a closeted gay youth, Jason Stuart says he felt alienated from his dysfunctional family.[1] His father, he says, was more focused on making money than on showing his children love. However, his father's focus on putting one's best self forward in business left Jason with a desire to always be true to himself.[4][11] His mother inspired him to be an artist,[4] and he began performing at the local Jewish community center when he was eight years old.[1] He began taking acting seriously in junior high.[2]

Jason Stuart was heavily bullied throughout his childhood for his perceived homosexuality.[12][8] He developed a quick wit and sense of humor because he was terrified[8] and because it was an effective defensive mechanism, "so they could laugh with me rather than at me," he later said.[12] Being funny was also a way to express his feelings, even if they were hidden by irony or sarcasm.[12]

Although he was always making jokes growing up, Stuart says he was despondent. "When I was a kid, everyone thought I was jovial, funny. But I was one of those suicidal kids who went to sleep wishing I wouldn't wake up."[2]

Stuart was chubby as a child, standing 5 feet 9 inches (1.75 m) tall and weighing 250 pounds (110 kg).[2] He was attacked several times in junior high school after his peers assumed he was gay. The word "fag" was written on his locker, a girl punched him in the face (for which he was hospitalized), and another student beat him until he was unconscious.[1][a]

As a child, Stuart was impressed by sarcastic and self-deprecating comedians such as Lucille Ball, Totie Fields, Paul Lynde, John Ritter, and Lily Tomlin.[9] He also found actors Whoopi Goldberg, Dustin Hoffman, and Barbra Streisand inspiring.[4] Streisand appealed to him most. He saw her in the film Funny Girl, and her "sad on the inside, funny on the outside" character seemed to mirror his own life.[9]

Stuart's parents divorced when he was 17, and he left home a year later.[2] Both parents later remarried[10] (his mother had 4 partners in total).[8]

Career

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Early acting career

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Lacking any connections in the entertainment industry, Stuart called every agent listed in the Players Directory (a directory of talent and casting agents, published twice a year). He had a head shot taken, and sent the photograph to the producer of every television show he liked.[2]

His first acting gig was as an extra on the comedy series One Day at a Time in 1977. He played a student, and had to exit through a door. He was so nervous that not only did he slam the wrong door, but he slammed the door so hard that its molding fell off.[2]

Stuart supported himself by taking a wide range of odd jobs. He also took acting classes and studied under such prestigious teachers as Nina Foch, Harvey Lembeck, Roy London, Allan Miller, and Lawrence Parke. His first credited role on television came on the syndicated series The Life and Times of Eddie Roberts in 1980.[2]

Stuart struggled to find work, however. Casting directors told him that he came across too gay[1] and that no one would hire him.[11] His agents did not know what parts they should have him audition for.[11]

Early stand-up career

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With acting gigs not forthcoming, Stuart's agent suggested in the early 1980s that he try stand-up comedy instead.[1] Although he received neither encouragement nor financial assistance from his parents,[9] he began a career as a professional comedian in 1983.[13] He began touring in 1985.[2]

Numerous comedy club gigs followed,[13] and soon Stuart was headlining at mainstream venues.[1] By 1987, Stuart was considered a major comedy star. That year, he appeared on the nationally syndicated talent show Star Search. Judges voted him superior to three other comedians, but Stuart lost in the fourth showdown to Martin Lawrence.[13]

Post-coming out

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Stuart came out publicly in the spring of 1993. His comedy act consisted of him acting heterosexual, even though he dressed outrageously or androgynously. He grew increasingly unhappy with his act, feeling he was lying to his audiences about who he was.[2] Stuart realized he needed to come out while leading a class on self-esteem for young performers. After being heckled one day for coming off too effeminate, he told the heckler "I'm not gonna let you make me feel bad for being myself." When the teacher thanked him after the class for saying that, he realized he needed to come out professionally.[2]

He first came out in early 1993 to an audience at The Laff Stop in Houston, Texas.[2] Shortly thereafter, Geraldo Rivera invited him to appear in a segment on "Unconventional Comedians" on his nationally syndicated talk show Geraldo. Stuart not only came out of the closet during the show, but kissed Rivera on the air.[13] Coming out made Stuart one of earliest openly gay comedians to be performing nationally,[9] and according to journalist Connor Keaney he was widely said to be the first openly gay stand-up comedian.[5] Stuart himself says such claims are inaccurate.[5]

Stuart has described being an openly gay comedian in the 1990s as fraught with difficulties. He feared that coming out would cost him his day-job, and he was constantly aware that homophobes might physically attack him on stage or as he left the club. He worried that doing pre-show publicity would draw attention from those who might do him harm. Four times, he was picketed by members of the virulently homophobic Westboro Baptist Church.[5] Bookers and other comedians would make fun of his sexuality, or openly harass him to get him to quit. Hosts would introduce him to audiences in crass or offensive ways.[12]

In June 1994,[14] Stuart performed his act on Broadway at the Town Hall theatre in OUTrageous Comedy '94, a benefit for the Gay Games hosted by Sandra Bernhard.[2] He continued to do small roles on television, appearing on The John Larroquette Show, Murder, She Wrote, and seaQuest DSV, among others,[2] but many casting directors openly refused to hire a gay man (and told him so to his face).[15]

Stuart performed for more than 100,000 people at the Millennium March on Washington in 2000.[16] He appeared on the groundbreaking comedy Will & Grace in 2000, and reprised his role in 2002.[5][8] He released his first comedy album, Gay Comedy Without A Dress, in 2001.[17]

In 2002, Stuart had what was described as a semi-regular role playing a gay therapist on the Damon Wayans comedy My Wife and Kids.[8][18]

Stuart wrote, produced, and starred in his first film, 10 Attitudes in 2004.[18] The same year, he appeared on House.[19] His first televised comedy special, Jason Stuart: Making It to the Middle, aired on the Here TV cable network in 2005.[19][8] A year later, he appeared in the comedy crime film Puff, Puff, Pass[19] and was nominated for a Gay International Film Award for Best Supporting Actor for his role in the 2006 independent film Coffee Date.[15][20] 2008 saw him guesting on Everybody Hates Chris, and in 2009 he appeared on the television series The Closer,[8] in a gay-themed remake of The Pit and the Pendulum, on Logo TV's comedy series One Night Stand-Up,[19] and an episode of the comedy series It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia.[12]

By 2010, Stuart was one of the most in-demand character actors in the United States, and was a favorite of casting directors who wanted a gay or sexually ambiguous performance.[19]

Refocus on dramatic acting

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After spending two decades primarily as a stand-up comedian, Stuart decided to refocus his career on acting in 2012.[1] After learning about the tax breaks that some U.S. states offer production companies, he hired an agent in each of these states and began auditioning nationwide.[11] He portrayed the officiant who marries John Lithgow and Alfred Molina in the critically lauded 2014 film Love is Strange,[5] and appeared in the highly praised 2015 independent feature Tangerine, an innovative production shot with three iPhone 5S smartphones.[21] That same year, he had a guest shot on the TV series Sleepy Hollow,[8] and toured the country with a new stand-up show, I'm Only Gay on the Weekends.[16] The show found a permanent home for a year at the Purple Room, a Palm Springs supper club and jazz venue.[8]

Stuart found his most prominent role to date in the 2016 dramatic period film The Birth of a Nation.[16] In the motion picture, a fictionalized version of Nat Turner's slave rebellion, Stuart plays Joseph Randall,[22] a white, racist plantation owner and rapist. He was deeply disturbed by the racism and violence in the screenplay, leading him to only read it through once.[1][6] To prepare for the film, Stuart read books on slavery in the Antebellum South[1] and worked for a week perfecting his scenes with actor friends.[11] Stuart told San Diego Jewish World that the role was life-changing, and he rededicated himself to being honest and truthful in his performances.[9] Stuart says it is his favorite role.[4]

In January 2019, Stuart's streaming independent comedy series Smothered premiered. Co-created and co-written with co-star Mitch Hara,[4][23] the series is about two gay Jewish men who have been married for 30 years but now find their relationship falling apart. Unable to get a divorce for financial reasons, the neurotic men struggle to find an accommodation.[4] Stuart and Hara were both nominated for Best Digital Performance and Smothered for Best Series at the 2021 Queerty Awards.[23] In April 2022, Stuart won the award for Best Actor in a Comedy at the Indie Series Awards.[24] A second season of Smothered began airing on Amazon Prime in the fall of 2022.[24] Stuart also starred as the title character in the 2019 short film Hank,[21] and had a small role in the 2019 independent fantasy anthology film Immortal.[23]

Stuart published his autobiography, Shut Up, I'm Talking: Coming Out in Hollywood and Making It to the Middle, in late 2019.[4] The title of the book came from a phrase his mother repeatedly said while he was growing up.[21]

As of March 2021, Jason Stuart had more than 150 acting credits.[23] That year, he appeared in an episode of the streaming legal drama Goliath, That month, he released his second comedy album, I'm the Daddy and I Have Candy.[23]

Labor activism

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Jason Stuart is a member of the performers' union SAG-AFTRA. He co-founded[1] and co-chairs the union's National LGBT Actors Committee,[19] the union's first committee for LGBT people.[1] Stuart was one of those who excoriated journalist Ramin Setoodeh during the Newsweek gay actor controversy. Setoodeh argued in his magazine piece that audiences do not accept openly LGBTQ actors in heterosexual roles. Stuart called Setoodeh's argument "wrongheaded" and said it "sends a damaging and false message that we are limited in the roles we are able to play. ... Unfortunately, harmful attitudes like those of Setoodeh are used to pressure actors to stay in the closet. Our work is clearly not done, and we will continue to fight to end fear within the acting community that being open about who you are means the end of your career. I'm an actor; it's not who I am but what I can play that counts."[25]

In his role as LGBT Committee co-chair, Stuart was the moderator of the first Transgender Actor Panel at the Outfest LGBTQ-oriented film festival in Los Angeles in 2015. Panelists included Alexandra Billings, D'Lo, and Mya Taylor.[16]

In June 2019, Stuart and other members of the SAG-AFTRA LGBT Committee marched as a contingent at the NYC Pride March.[15]

Personal life

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Stuart was raised Jewish, but says his family was more observant of tradition than it was religious. As an adult, he identifies as a secular Jew.[4]

Stuart says he relies on his memories of family for a good deal of his comedy act.[9] Stuart is "guardedly friendly" with his older brother and half-siblings from his father's second marriage, but estranged from his younger sister.[2] Leonard Greif died in 2012.[11]

Stuart was single as of 2019. He told an interviewer that year: "I've been a complete failure in every relationship so there's nowhere to go but up!"[4]

Filmography

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Year Film Role Other notes
1984 The Lost Empire Gay Dude
1987 Emanon Newsstand Man
Cross My Heart Waiter
P.A.N.I.C in Griffith Park Dean
1990 Kindergarten Cop Male Hairstylist
Eternity James Harris News Team
Road Lawyers and Other Briefs Man / Woman / Flight Attendant (segment "Hairline")
1995 Doin' It Right Brother
Cyber Bandits Street vendor
1997 Vegas Vacation Buffet Guy
1998 Southern Man Joseph Ogle
1999 Sam and Mike Man at party (Short)
Lost & Found Jewelry Store Manager
2000 Get Your Stuff Jason
Flamingo Dreams Porn Director
2001 Long Road to Paradise The Waiter (Short)
10 Attitudes Josh Stevens
2002 Dawg Photographer
Role of a Lifetime Phillip
2004 Space Businessman (Short)
A Day Without a Mexican Restaurant Manager
What Adam Knows Bradshaw (Short)
2005 Gone Postal Carl (Short)
Ghosts Never Sleep Barry Speer
2006 Coffee Date Clayton
Puff, Puff, Pass Chet
2007 Ping Pong Playa Doctor
Angels with Dirty Spaces Bob Kamen (Short)
2008 The Candlelight Murders David Wid
Friends & Lovers: The Ski Trip 2 Richard
San Saba Dylan Clay
Twisted Faith Father Reilly (Short)
2009 The Chronicles of Holly-Weird Leo (Short)
The Pit and the Pendulum Dimitri Divay [26]
Wild About Harry Randolph
My Lil Homo: Campers Unite Lil Jason Stuart (Video short)
Family of Four Nurse Nathan (Direct-to-video)
Split Second Officer Leonard
2010 Drop Dead Gorgeous Tim Honda (Direct To Video)
Gay Baby Darryl (Short)
2011 Part-Time Pool Guys Owner (Short)
Finding Mr. Wright Phillip
Walk a Mile in My Pradas Dr. Feist
Monkey Man Demetrius Delmonico
The Stand-In Brian (Short)
2012 Posey Mark (Short)
Stigma Counselor Fred (Short)
K-11 Prison Laundry Trustee
BearCity 2: The Proposal Scott-O
2013 Glitter and Ribs Taylor Swift's boyfriend (Short)
Big Gay Love Dan#2
Goodbye World Apartment Manager
2014 The Spy Who Came to Brunch Operations Director ("G") (Short)
Paper Hearts Lenny (Short)
Secrets & Toys Lord Of Leather (Short)
Love Is Strange Officiant
2015 Tangerine Joey the Doorman
Hush Up Sweet Charlotte Mr. Wills
Suburban Memoir Mr. H (Short)
Baby Steps Dr. Schwartz
2016 Dirty Manny Brown
The Birth of a Nation Joseph Randall
Gone: VR 360 Francis
2017 Viva Diva Steven (Short)
The Heart of a Woman Giles Finch (Short)
The Guest House Ray
Open Weeper
Like Father Lenny (Short)
2018 The Line Carl (Short)
Face Off Lucky (Short)
Jinn Victor Chase
2019 American Bistro Sheldon Crassus
The Infiltrators Agent Jensen
The Fare The Dispatcher
Abducted Detective Walter
Hank Hank (Short)
Myra Baurb Sampson
Year Television series Role Other notes
1980 The Life and Times of Eddie Roberts Smith TV series, 1 episode
1984 Out of Control Dog butler TV series, 1 episode
1985 Michael Nesmith in Television Parts Young Taylor TV series, 1 episode
1986 Can You Feel Me Dancing? DeeJay (TV movie)
1987 Roses Are for the Rich D.J. Mini Series, 1 episodes
1988 Superior Court Murray Decater TV series, 1 episode
1989 CBS Summer Playhouse (unknown) TV series, 1 episode
1990-1992 Sunset Beat Marty TV series, 2 episodes
1991 N.Y. Mounted Vincent (TV movie)
1993 This Just In Hairdresser TV series, 1 episode
The John Larroquette Show Chris TV series, 1 episode
Murder, She Wrote Motel Manager TV series, 1 episode
1994 SeaQuest 2032 Motivational Speaker TV series, 1 episode
1996 Don't Quit Your Day Job Stand-Up Performances #20 (Video Game)
L.A. Firefighters Janitor TV series, 1 episode
1997 Murder One Barry Pruitt TV series, 1 episode
1998 Charmed Martin TV series, 1 episode
The Drew Carey Show Chip TV series, 1 episode
Gia Booker #2 (TV movie)
2000 Norm Dennis TV series, 1 episode
Providence Stage Manager TV series, 1 episode
2000-2001 The Huntress Barry (2000)/ 911 Operator #2 (2001) TV series, 2 episodes
2000-2002 Will & Grace Stuart TV series, 2 episodes
2001 Me & My Needs Karaoke Guy (Pilot)
Three Sisters Secretary TV series, 1 episode
2002 My Wife and Kids Dr. Steven Michael Thomas TV series, 4 episodes
2003 The Sausage Factory Doctor (Pilot)
Strong Medicine Talk Show Host TV series, 1 episode
2004 House Adam Brown TV series, 1 episode
2005 Fat Actress McG's Assistant TV series, 1 episode
2006 George Lopez Sales Manager TV series, 1 episode
2007 The DL Chronicles Sassy Customer TV series, 1 episode
Mind of Mencia Gay Advocate TV series, 1 episode
Orlando's Bed and Breakfast Lenny Greenbaum-Brooks (Pilot)
2008 Everybody Hates Chris Lonnie TV series, 1 episode
2009 It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia Event Manager TV series, 1 episode
The Closer Greg Lewis TV series, 1 episode
Keep Dreaming Mark (Pilot)
2010 The Pink House Judge (Pilot)
Friends & Lovers Richard TV series, 1 episode
Warren the Ape Ira TV series, 1 episode
2011 America's Most Wanted: America Fights Back Detective Hudson TV series documentary, 1 episode
Paul Cruz: Latin Actor (A Mockuseries) Samuel TV series, 3 episodes
Entourage Doc Hock (uncredited) TV series, 1 episode
2012 Fumbling Thru the Pieces Tommy TV series, 2 episodes
The Secret Life of the American Teenager Hotel Manager TV series, 1 episode
Home Invasion Maurice Lapeer (TV movie)
Bitter Bartender Rodney Silverstein TV series, 4 episodes
2013 A Dog's Life Rich Dog (voice role) (TV movie)
2014 Mentor Jason TV series 6 episodes
Futurestates Ronald Kopstein TV series, 1 episode
2014-2015 Just Us Guys Principal O'Dell TV series, 1 episode
2015 Sleepy Hollow (TV series) Curator TV series, 1 episode
Real Rob Billy the sauna guy TV series, 1 episode
Adam Astra Casting Jason Stuart (Pilot)
2017 Odd Man Out: The Series Mr. Corker TV series, 1 episode
The Mephisto Box Anton TV series, 1 episode
Kevin Hart Presents: The Next Level Father TV series, 1 episode
Love (TV series) Dr. Powell TV series, 1 episode
2018 The Strivers Frank Kaufer (Pilot)
Hilton Head Island Raymond TV series, 1 episode
Swedish Dicks Oscar Bustamente TV series, 1 episode
2020 Smothered (TV series) Ralph TV series, 7 episode
2021 Goliath Charles TV series, 1 episode

References

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Notes
  1. ^ Stuart says he told no one about the writing on his locker. He looked at it every day for three years.[2]
Citations
  1. ^ a b c d e f g h i j k l m n o p Pfefferman, Naomi (October 14, 2016). "Stand-up comedian turns slave owner in 'Birth of a Nation'". Jewish Journal. Retrieved January 14, 2023.
  2. ^ a b c d e f g h i j k l m n o p q Christon, Lawrence (October 10, 1994). "For Jason Stuart, His Sexual Orientation's a Full-Time Job". Los Angeles Times. Retrieved January 14, 2023.
  3. ^ Stuart, Jason (2019). Shut Up, I'm Talking!: Coming Out in Hollywood and Making It to the Middle. Terrace, B.C.: CCB Publishing. p. 15. ISBN 9781771433938.
  4. ^ a b c d e f g h i j Miller, Gerri (August 21, 2019). "Actor Jason Stuart Writes About Growing Up Gay, Jewish, and Funny in New Memoir". Jewish Journal. Retrieved January 14, 2023.
  5. ^ a b c d e f g Keaney, Connor (February 12, 2020). "The Triumph of Jason Stuart". Emmys.com. Retrieved January 14, 2023.
  6. ^ a b c Stuart, Jason (April 4, 2017). "The Seder, Through the Eyes of a Racist Slave Owner". Jewish Telegraphic Agency. Retrieved January 14, 2023.
  7. ^ a b c d Stuart, Jason (August 15, 2022). "Jason Stuart: When You Come From a Family That's Very Dysfunctional" (video). YouTube.com. Invocation. Retrieved January 14, 2023.
  8. ^ a b c d e f g h i j Pena, Xochitl (November 16, 2016). "'Always Sunny' comedian to perform at Palm Springs' Purple Room". Palm Springs Desert. Retrieved January 15, 2023.
  9. ^ a b c d e f g h Trieger, Eva (August 4, 2019). "Jewish gay comedian Jason Stuart speaks out". San Diego Jewish World. Retrieved January 14, 2023.
  10. ^ a b c d "Leonard Greif obituary". Los Angeles Times. February 29, 2012. Retrieved January 14, 2023.
  11. ^ a b c d e f Stuart, Jason (January 6, 2016). "Showing Up and Full of Gratitude". HuffPost. Retrieved January 15, 2023.
  12. ^ a b c d e Hartinger, Jeffrey (August 10, 2011). "The Jason of All Trades". The Advocate. Retrieved January 15, 2023.
  13. ^ a b c d Karvoski, Ed (1997). A Funny Time to Be Gay. New York: Fireside Books. p. 133. ISBN 9780684818962.
  14. ^ "The Games Begin: Things to Do With a Gay Flavor". The New York Times. June 17, 1994. p. C28.
  15. ^ a b c Bowling, Suzanna (June 22, 2019). "Jason Stuart Living His Life Openly With Pride". Times Square Chronicles. Retrieved January 14, 2023.
  16. ^ a b c d Robinson, Charlotte (July 25, 2015). "Jason Stuart Talks Being An Out Actor and LGBT Equality". HuffPost.com. Retrieved January 15, 2023.
  17. ^ Gdula, Steve (November 6, 2001). "Funny That Way". The Advocate. p. 55. Retrieved January 14, 2023.
  18. ^ a b Szymanski, Mike (December 1, 2004). "This time, Stuart's 'Attitude' is straighter than usual". Knight Ridder/Tribune News Service. Archived from the original on June 10, 2014.
  19. ^ a b c d e f Pratt, Paul E. (November 18, 2010). "Out comedian Jason Stuart gets Rrazzed (in San Francisco)". Edge Media. Retrieved January 15, 2023.
  20. ^ Catsoulis, Jeannette (February 14, 2007). "Coffee, Tea or an Affair With a Guy?". The New York Times. Retrieved January 14, 2023.
  21. ^ a b c Tate, Sharon (June 18, 2019). "In 'Hank,' Jason Stuart opens a marriage—and a discussion about men over 50". Palm Springs Desert Sun. Retrieved January 14, 2023.
  22. ^ Chang, Justin (January 25, 2016). "Sundance Film Review: 'The Birth of a Nation'". Variety. Retrieved January 26, 2016.
  23. ^ a b c d e "Jason Stuart releases comedy album 'I'm the Daddy and I Have Candy'". BearWorld. March 14, 2021. Retrieved January 14, 2023.
  24. ^ a b Tomeo, Marissa (April 10, 2022). "Jason Stuart Wins Best Actor in a Comedy Series at the Indie Series Awards". Broadway World. Retrieved January 14, 2023.
  25. ^ McNary, Dave (May 13, 2010). "SAG blasts Newsweek's 'Jacket'". Variety. Retrieved January 15, 2023.
  26. ^ "Gay Horror Films: The Pit & The Pendulum". Gay Horror Films. 16 September 2011. Retrieved 29 May 2019.
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