Nancy Ludlow Tuckerman (October 24, 1928 – August 1, 2018) was the White House Social Secretary during the Kennedy administration. After the Kennedy assassination, she remained the personal secretary to Jackie Kennedy until the latter's death in 1994.
Nancy Tuckerman | |
|---|---|
 White House Official Portrait, 1963 | |
| 12th White House Social Secretary | |
| In office 1963–1963 | |
| Appointed by | Jacqueline Kennedy |
| Preceded by | Letitia Baldrige |
| Succeeded by | Bess Abell |
| Personal details | |
| Born | Nancy Ludlow Tuckerman October 24, 1928 Manhattan, New York, U.S. |
| Died | August 1, 2018 (aged 89) Salisbury, Connecticut, U.S. |
Early life
editTuckerman (nicknamed "Tucky") was the daughter of Betty (née Thompson; 1901-1977)[1] and Roger Tuckerman (1898-1967). She grew up in Southampton, New York and Farmington, Connecticut. Her father was a successful Manhattan stockbroker. Her aunt (her father's sister) was the decorator Dorothy Draper.[2]
She had a sister, Cynthia Tuckerman Gay (died 2014) and a brother, Roger Tuckerman. Her nephew John Gay Jr., married Deborah Hearst, of the Hearst family. Her brother Roger was married to Caryn Ryan, daughter of businessman Clendenin J. Ryan. She was also related to Walter Tuckerman.[3] Her great-great-great grandfather was Oliver Wolcott, the 19th Governor of Connecticut.[4]
Jackie Bouvier and Tuckerman met as 8 or 9 year olds at the Chapin School in New York City. Their families spent summers together on Long Island.[5] They later were roommates at Miss Porter's Boarding School in Connecticut before becoming debutantes. Tuckerman was a bridesmaid at the wedding of Bouvier and John F. Kennedy in 1953.
Career
editTuckerman started her own travel business before being asked by Jackie Kennedy to work for her in the White House after her husband was elected president. In 1963, Jackie Kennedy threw a surprise 35th birthday party for Tuckerman at the White House.[6][7]
When John F. Kennedy was assassinated, Tuckerman was responsible for responding to the thousands of letters that poured into the White House as condolences for Jackie Kennedy.[8] These letters are now collectors items and are signed by Tuckerman. After leaving the White House, she remained the personal secretary to Jackie Kennedy until the latter's death in 1994. Tuckerman's personal papers reflecting her time in the White House were released in 2015 and are known as the Nancy Tuckerman Files within the Jacqueline Bouvier Kennedy Onassis Personal Papers .[9][10][11] In 1994, Tuckerman was left 250,000 U.S. dollars in Jackie Kennedy's last will and testament.[12][13]
In the 1970s, Tuckerman worked in public relations for Olympic Airways, which was owned by Aristotle Onassis; in that role, she helped develop the first New York City Marathon. She also co-authored a revised edition of Amy Vanderbilt’s Complete Book of Etiquette in 1995. A private person, she apparently never gave an interview or wrote a book about her relationship with Jackie Kennedy Onassis.[14] She spoke with author William Kuhn in preparation for his book, Reading Jackie.[15] She lived her retirement in Salisbury, Connecticut.[16][17]
In the 2016 biographical film Jackie, Tuckerman is portrayed by actress Greta Gerwig.
Death
editTuckerman died on August 1, 2018, of chronic obstructive pulmonary disease, at an assisted-living center in Salisbury, Connecticut. She was 89.[18]
References
edit- ^ Betty Tuckerman New York Times Obituary accessed 10/26/2016
- ^ Southampton History accessed 10/26/2016
- ^ Ms. Hearst, New York Times 1989 accessed 10/26/2016
- ^ Elizabeth Wolcott Tuckerman obituary accessed 10/26/2016
- ^ "Nancy Ludlow Tuckerman, Formerly Of Southampton, Dies August 1 - Southampton - 27east". www.27east.com. Archived from the original on 2018-08-22.
- ^ Nancy Tuckerman Files Released accessed 10/26/2016
- ^ Dear Miss Kennedy accessed 10/26/2016
- ^ Nancy Tuckerman 1964 interview transcript accessed 10/26/2016
- ^ First Lady No More accessed 10/26/2016
- ^ Video Message from Nancy Tuckerman accessed 10/26/2016
- ^ Nancy Tuckerman press release accessed 10/26/2016
- ^ Friend of a Lifetime accessed 10/26/2016
- ^ Nancy Tuckerman Photo Archive accessed 10/26/2016
- ^ "Four Performances and a Director's Chair: Greta Gerwig is Having a Moment (Q&A)". 9 December 2016.
- ^ Kuhn, William. "Inside Jackie O's Longest, Most Complicated Friendship". Vanity Fair. Retrieved 2021-02-26.
- ^ Polite Answers to Rude Questions accessed 10/26/2016
- ^ Jackie Kennedy Will Archived 2019-04-30 at the Wayback Machine accessed 10/26/2016
- ^ Genzlinger, Neil (August 5, 2018). "Nancy Tuckerman, 89, Trusted Aide of Jacqueline Kennedy Onassis, Dies". The New York Times. Retrieved August 6, 2018.