Serena Terry is the content creator for the TikTok channel “Mammy Banter”, and the author of two books: Mammy Banter - The Secret Life of an Uncool Mum[1] and The Sh!te before Christmas.[2][3]
Online presence
editTerry was introduced to TikTok through her daughter, ultimately joining TikTok during the COVID-19 lockdowns. At the time she was attempting to “detox” from social media. The motivation to start her own channel originated from wanting to create “warts” on social media, in contrast to the “airbrushed perfection” on platforms such as Facebook and Instagram, a source she claims was at the root of her insecurities.[4] Mammy Banter video skits use a number of everyday scenarios such as "homework struggles and fussy eating to the trials of swimming with kids, parent-teacher meetings, dealing with teenagers and first day back at work blues". In spite of her perceived confident presence online, Terry has raised awareness with fans about her struggles with anxiety and depression.[5][6]
Serena made the decision to quit as chief operations officer at the tech company she worked for in Derry once the TikTok channel achieved relative success.[5] Mammy Banter was never monetised, to avoid "selling my soul to the advertising gods". To pay the bills, Terry set up her personal online digital marketing consulting, Catchy Co.[5][7]
Publications
editLondon Publisher HarperCollins emailed Terry to ask she consider writing a novel in the spirit of Mammy Banter. Terry's first novel Mammy Banter - The Secret Life of an Uncool Mum, explores topics such as "mummy guilt, relationship insecurities, bad hair days and cyberbullying". The book's protagonist, Tara Gallagher, seeks a more relaxed life in contrast to her former self, which sought out to obtain everything.[5][8] In The Sh!te Before Christmas, Tara wants a perfect Christmas for her family, yet she finds herself alone in the decision-making: misbehaving children, her husband unusually distracted, as well as Tara's mother, who she describes as being “glamorous, feckless, boundary-less”, deciding to move back in with her for the holidays.[3]
Other appearances
editIn addition to her work on TikTok and two books, Terry has made a cameo for the Channel 4 series Derry Girls as an RUC officer,[7] a public speaking session in Belfast to talk about "resilience, mental health and online trolls"[5] and a stand-up in Edinburgh.[9]
Personal life
editTerry is from Derry City, Northern Ireland, where she lives with her husband and two children.[10]
During the COVID-19 pandemic lockdowns, Terry home-schooled and worked a 60-hour week from home as chief operations officer for her tech company. During that period, Terry describes grieving over the loss of her 38-year-old twin brothers, Patrick and Daniel, months earlier.[11] Patrick died from liver cancer during the second half of 2019. Daniel, a comedian, also struggled with his mental health, in addition to drugs and alcohol,[12] passed away just eight weeks afterwards from alcohol-related illness. She also experienced a severe bout of postpartum depression soon after, which led to depression and anxiety.[10][6]
References
edit- ^ Keenan, Shaun (2022-03-02). "Mammy Banter's Serena Terry talks new book, mental health and the future". BelfastLive. Retrieved 2022-11-20.
- ^ "The eagerly-awaited second novel from 'Mammy Banter' Serena Terry is finally on release". www.derryjournal.com. 2022-11-11. Retrieved 2022-11-20.
- ^ a b "Serena Terry aka 'Mammy Banter' to release second book". www.derryjournal.com. 2022-07-18. Retrieved 2022-11-20.
- ^ Butler, Janice (2022-05-02). "Derry mammy Serena Terry on TikTok, Derry Girls and her new book".
{{cite journal}}: Cite journal requires|journal=(help) - ^ a b c d e "Derry mum Serena Terry on her new Mammy Banter book, mental health and her plans for the future". The Irish News. 2022-03-07. Retrieved 2022-11-20.
- ^ a b Keenan, Shaun (2022-10-10). "NI TikTok star opens up about how she hit "rock bottom" in new video online". BelfastLive. Retrieved 2022-11-20.
- ^ a b Butler, Janice (2 May 2022). "Derry mammy Serena Terry on TikTok, Derry Girls and her new book". RTE.
- ^ "Serena Terry releases 'Mammy Banter' book: 'Tara is everyone and everyone is Tara'". www.derryjournal.com. 2022-03-05. Retrieved 2022-11-21.
- ^ Keenan, Shaun (2022-08-03). "Mammy Banter's Serena Terry tells of nerves ahead of debut stand-up show". BelfastLive. Retrieved 2022-11-21.
- ^ a b Smith, Andrea. "Irish mum Serena Terry on turning pandemic boredom into TikTok stardom after 'rocky time' in her life". The Times. ISSN 0140-0460. Retrieved 2022-11-20.
- ^ "Crippling Anxiety And Mammy Banter - Mom Thinks Motherhood". Mom Thinks. 2021-09-26. Retrieved 2023-04-10.
- ^ "Serena Terry shares her 'Mammy Banter' secrets". BelfastTelegraph.co.uk. ISSN 0307-1235. Retrieved 2023-02-06.