Talk:Pregnancy/Archive 7
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Getting a Decision
Can this conflict be sent to WP "arbitration", whatever we call it? If we ask for decision by a group of editors that is binding, is there such a process? DonaldRichardSands (talk) 16:47, 3 November 2011 (UTC)
- Nope. Nathan T 17:19, 3 November 2011 (UTC)
- Arbitration is only involved if there is some evidence of editor misconduct of such significance that an editor believes arbitration is called for. If someone thinks that such a degree of misconduct exists, they are free to request arbitration, but I think mediation and other steps are generally requested to be at least tried first. John Carter (talk) 21:31, 6 November 2011 (UTC)
We don't need a new decision. We had a perfectly good one a month ago. Some people didn't like it. HiLo48 (talk) 23:42, 6 November 2011 (UTC)
- Some people who did like it also appear willing to continue the collaborative process with others who didn't and to find a new compromise. Others appear ideologically stuck in the mud. How long will you keep this matter unresolved by parroting that line? 3 months? 6 months? a year? Consensus can change, and the collaborative process never ends. It is clear that right now more people favor moving ahead with this image, even people who have no problem with the nude, or may even have liked it better.Griswaldo (talk) 02:56, 8 November 2011 (UTC)
- We have a decision. No justification has been presented for requiring another one so soon, apart from not liking the one we have. HiLo48 (talk) 02:59, 8 November 2011 (UTC)
- Plenty of justifications have been put forth to change the opening image to the Asian one, while bumping the nude down the entry which is what this conversation is about. Cheers.Griswaldo (talk) 03:04, 8 November 2011 (UTC)
- No justification has been presented for requiring another decision so soon. HiLo48 (talk) 03:13, 8 November 2011 (UTC)
- I agree with HiLo48. Dessources (talk) 11:30, 8 November 2011 (UTC)
- No justification is necessary, either. WP:CCC doesn't come with waiting periods, and it doesn't require you to agree that any rational justification for further discussion exists. WhatamIdoing (talk) 07:27, 9 November 2011 (UTC)
- That may or may not be true, but to totally ignore the impartial decision of an independent arbiter, just because it didn't go your way, shows incredibly bad faith. It means that Wikipedia judgements are likely to lean in the direction preferred by those without a life who are able to spend virtually unlimited time here pushing POV here without fair and due process. HiLo48 (talk) 19:02, 9 November 2011 (UTC)
- Last I checked, Wikipedia doesn't promise you "fair and due process", either. WhatamIdoing (talk) 19:32, 9 November 2011 (UTC)
- Whatever, it should be a guiding principle for every responsible editor here. HiLo48 (talk) 19:41, 9 November 2011 (UTC)
- Last I checked, Wikipedia doesn't promise you "fair and due process", either. WhatamIdoing (talk) 19:32, 9 November 2011 (UTC)
- That may or may not be true, but to totally ignore the impartial decision of an independent arbiter, just because it didn't go your way, shows incredibly bad faith. It means that Wikipedia judgements are likely to lean in the direction preferred by those without a life who are able to spend virtually unlimited time here pushing POV here without fair and due process. HiLo48 (talk) 19:02, 9 November 2011 (UTC)
- No justification is necessary, either. WP:CCC doesn't come with waiting periods, and it doesn't require you to agree that any rational justification for further discussion exists. WhatamIdoing (talk) 07:27, 9 November 2011 (UTC)
- I agree with HiLo48. Dessources (talk) 11:30, 8 November 2011 (UTC)
I agree HiLo. Wikipedia isn't an it, its us, and while the entity Wikipedia can't promise anything we can try to be fair and adhere to due process.(olive (talk) 21:18, 9 November 2011 (UTC))
- Under WP:NOT/When You Are Wondering What to Do, the policy states: When you wonder what should or should not be in an article, ask yourself what a reader would expect to find under the same heading in an encyclopedia. With this in mind, I looked at Encyclopedia Britannica Online to see what images there are for the Pregnancy article. Several images were available for viewing. The only photo of a pregnant body shows a partial view of a reclining woman's pregnant abdomen in the process of having an ultrasound, no breasts, legs or anything else. I did not pay to sign up to view the entire article. It is possible that there could be more images that show more of the pregnant female form but that photo is what that encyclopedia wants you to see at first glance. I believe there are many parents who would prefer that their school age children view an article on this topic without as much of the female body exposed. However, there are comparative breast photos later on in the article anyway. The article might be user friendly to more young readers, which is why I have supported using the asian lady photo as an alternative. But with the exposed breasts later on, perhaps it ultimately just doesn't matter.Coaster92 (talk) 05:31, 9 November 2011 (UTC)
- For my part, I would prefer my 12 year old daughter to be shown the current nude picture at school (I have shown it to her, and she couldn't understand why some people find it wrong), because this is what education is all about : to show an image that communicates information and values, and, important among such values, saying that it is not sinful to see the breast of a pregnant woman, but on the contrary the most natural thing in the world. This would have the added benefit of preparing her mind to make her comfortable the day she will have a baby and will be breastfeeding. Let's hope the next generation at least will not feel embarrassed - let alone ashamed - to breastfeed when in public, as this not only the natural way of feeding a baby, but it is also the most healthy way, one that creates a feeling of fullfiilment both in the mother and the baby. An encyclopedia should not obfuscate such a message simply to avoid the risk that some of its readers may become hysterical at the view of a nipple. Dessources (talk) 00:47, 10 November 2011 (UTC)
- Finally, you acknowledge what upsets some people! The role of Wikipedia is NOT to set values. We are NOT here to teach kids that it is not sinful to see the breast of anybody. That is YOUR opinion and those are YOUR values. In other words, that is you POINT OF VIEW. You are finally admitting to another perspective, that you find it to be the "natural way" because it provides "fullfillment". Those are specific points of view, which you embrace and accept. (Personally, I agree.) But it is your POV that you are espousing and it is YOUR VALUES that you want to force onto Wikipedia. People who don't share that view and don't believe that pregnancy is a "state of mind" as mentioned above will question the value of the image in the lead---regardless of their view on the nudity itself. You want the image because it supports your POV (which goes beyond the mere nudity of the individual.)
- You want the image not because it is objectively the best, but rather because it teaches the moral and ethical VALUES that you believe in. And then you are critical of others who oppose it because others oppose it for the same reason? There is a term for that.---Balloonman Poppa Balloon 14:50, 10 November 2011 (UTC)
- Balloonman, you are using again a straw man argument. You distort what I said to then argue with it, calling relativism to your rescue. I clearly prefer the current image because I think it is objectively the best, and I have stated it repeatedly, with explicit explanations, so there should be no ambiguity about that. In my opinion, having in the lead the image which is objectively the best and resisting attempts to replace it that are motivated by a desire to censor nudity, are implicity the expression of a value of paramount importance - actually the very value which animated the early Encyclopedists, Diderot and d'Alembert - and which I would like to see transmitted to my daughter: this value is called reason (rings a bell?) or rational thinking, which also happens to be one of the fundamental values of Wikipedia. Reading the main article in last week's edition of New Scientist, it appears that this is a value that is falling into disfavour in the USA. Wikipedia should be preserved from such a sad evolution. Dessources (talk) 20:20, 12 November 2011 (UTC)
- Exactly what harm will befall anybody by them seeing a picture of a pregnant lady the way she really looks, rather than hidden under somebody's culturally biased idea of what is acceptable dress? Some readers will be offended by any flesh. You are not aiming to please them. HiLo48 (talk) 18:47, 10 November 2011 (UTC)
- SMH, HiLo, you seem to be unable or unwilling to understand that this isn't about a nude, but rather other implications associated with a nude in the lead relative to the topic of pregnancy. My argument is not that nudity is wrong, it is that this image conveys the wrong message in the lead because it has a POV. Dessources, in arguing for the nude, basically summed up the arguments against it perfectly. Des explained the POV that the nude carries and admits that this stems from his values that he thinks Wikipedia has a responsibility to espousing. It is not Wikipedia's role to teach "such values" that Des advocates. THIS Nude conveys certain notions about pregnancy that are not scientific, but rather emotive. It conveys ideas about pregnancy that Des likes---and because Des likes the "natural way" Des advocates for this image. The "natural way" that Des likes, is a POV concerning pregnancy and childbirth. One that not everybody shares, but a POV nonetheless. Having a nude in the lead sets a certain tone in the article---and that tone is "the natural way." Notice, I've never argued that the image should be removed/stricken or whathave you. My opposition is 1) some people ARE offended by it and 2) It sets a tone that is not beneficial for THIS article. The same image in the lead of Natural childbirth would be 100% acceptable and expected. Because that article is about a specific strain of thought concerning pregnancy. The same image here, is not. But all you want to hear is "NOTCENSOR" and we "already had an RfC." I am NOT arguing to move the image based upon objections to nudity or the nipple... The nudity is has not been the focus of my argument against the image, but that's all you seem to see.---Balloonman Poppa Balloon 20:57, 10 November 2011 (UTC)
- For my part, I would prefer my 12 year old daughter to be shown the current nude picture at school (I have shown it to her, and she couldn't understand why some people find it wrong), because this is what education is all about : to show an image that communicates information and values, and, important among such values, saying that it is not sinful to see the breast of a pregnant woman, but on the contrary the most natural thing in the world. This would have the added benefit of preparing her mind to make her comfortable the day she will have a baby and will be breastfeeding. Let's hope the next generation at least will not feel embarrassed - let alone ashamed - to breastfeed when in public, as this not only the natural way of feeding a baby, but it is also the most healthy way, one that creates a feeling of fullfiilment both in the mother and the baby. An encyclopedia should not obfuscate such a message simply to avoid the risk that some of its readers may become hysterical at the view of a nipple. Dessources (talk) 00:47, 10 November 2011 (UTC)
- Whoa there! pregnancy whether "natural" or not "natural" has nothing to do with clothing or a lack of it. Pregnancy is a physiological state. As with any physiological state its better viewed and understood with out clothing because clothing hides that physiology.(olive (talk) 21:19, 10 November 2011 (UTC))
- Balloonman - What's SMH? And your post that's seemingly in response to mine talks an awful lot about what Dessources said. Dessource's views are not necessarily the same as mine. HiLo48 (talk) 22:00, 10 November 2011 (UTC)
- I'd guess that it stands for "shaking my head". WhatamIdoing (talk) 22:09, 10 November 2011 (UTC)
- Could be. I'm not familiar with that usage. In my country SMH is a very common abbreviation for the name of a major newspaper, so that was all I could think of. HiLo48 (talk) 22:20, 10 November 2011 (UTC)
- True, in response to Des' and possibly Balloonman's points (can't find a signature for sure), the purpose of Wiki is not to espouse a POV. But I did talk about what I think parents would like to see on Wiki (ie, an article about pregnancy without a nude) and Des' seems to have been responding to that. I do appreciate actually having a parent's perspective because there does seem to be guess work involved in figuring out how to gauge this and handle this. I realize this is only one parent's perspective but at least, it's one, which is better than none. So again, maybe the nude is not such a big deal.Coaster92 (talk) 04:43, 11 November 2011 (UTC)
- Hey, I'm a parent, of three now grown up children. It never crossed my mind that their brains and morals would be damaged by seeing breasts. In fact, to me it just seems normal and the right thing to do. Seeing an image like that is much better than all the violence and sex pushed at them by commercial media. HiLo48 (talk) 06:53, 11 November 2011 (UTC)
- And I am a parent of two grown-ups. Neither of has ever regarded nipples, skin or pregnancy as material for dread or disgust, salacity or exploitation, or for that matter for anything other than respect, intimacy, or appreciation, whether covered or visible. Frankly I never went out of my way to influence them in particular, but they developed in their own way without our explicit guidance; it was simply the way they were brought up, without either sniggers or idolatry. Possibly coincidentally, they have been happily married to one wife each for over a decade. I cannot but feel sorry for the children of parents that have betrayed them into contrary outlooks, but also cannot but deplore some of the results that I have seen. As for mine, the green saliva, fangs, luminous eyes, and the bolts through their necks that they acquired in the process of growing up are greatly admired in the local graveyards after dark. JonRichfield (talk) 10:07, 11 November 2011 (UTC)
- I'd guess that it stands for "shaking my head". WhatamIdoing (talk) 22:09, 10 November 2011 (UTC)
- Balloonman - What's SMH? And your post that's seemingly in response to mine talks an awful lot about what Dessources said. Dessource's views are not necessarily the same as mine. HiLo48 (talk) 22:00, 10 November 2011 (UTC)
A lot of parents have chimed in here. But being a parent has ZERO NADA NOTHING to do with my objection. It's a red herring... The lead is like the cover of a book... it entices people to read the book. Take a look at books that have been published on the subject. How many of them use a Nude on the cover? I looked at Amazon last night and there were 2 'cartoons' which MIGHT have been nude. None other. Even in the Natural Childbirth there was one where the hands were strategically plaecd. Why? Because people don't expect to see a nude in the lead/on the cover on this subject.
Regardkess of how much you like it, they do not add to the article, but it can harm the article. How? By setting a tone for the article that says the article was written from a specific perspective---one which Dessources describes perfectly. One where pregnancy is a "state of mind" and the "natural way" should be encouraged. One which advocates a certain set of Values... notice Des is talkign about using Wikipedia to TEACH values. The people who are talking about the affect on children are the one's who are using the NOCENSOR argument... not the one's who want to move it. People want to move it because ot the impact it has on the article. 1) It is controversial. 2) It is POV (per Dessources.) If you want the best possible article, then the question being asked, "Is this the best possible image?" And the answer is no. Remove sentament about censorship. Remove the emotional claptrap that Dessources uses above. And ask yourself: Does seeing a nude in the lead on this article present a POV relative to the subject? Does seeing a nude in the lead set a tone relative to the article that would not occur with another image? If you answer yes to either question, even if you agree with the message being sent, then you have to acknowledge that the nude is not neutral and thus not the best image for this article.---Balloonman Poppa Balloon 20:22, 11 November 2011 (UTC)
- POV, like all the other "anchors", gets used as a spurious basis for attack of anything that Wikilawyers don't like. Any meaningful statement can be represented as POV, including the statement that presentation of a nude sets "a tone for the article that says the article was written from a specific perspective". POV in any meaningful sense in WP does not mean that any proposition (verbal, pictorial, or implicit) that says one thing and (thereby) denies a number of other things, must be disqualified. If POV did mean that, then nothing could be said at all. As for being picky about pictures setting tones, that is one of the points of using pictures to convey information; they use channels not effectively open to verbal media such as writing. The question is whether the picture and its placement are relevant and effective in context, not whether they convey something that someone, somewhere, might be able to pillory as offensive. I think placement and picture are fine. I also think that the picture at the head of the Giraffe article is fine, though it shows a nude with its posterior far more visible than that of the pregnant lady. Having confessed that, it follows from your criteria that the nude giraffe is not neutral and thus not the best image for that article. If that is your idea of practical reasoning, better steer clear of such minefields — The article deals with pregnancy. The woman shown is shown to best advantage of tone and mood, to represent a healthy young body and mind in a healthy and functional (and relevant) state, far more so than any of the rival pictures proposed. There is nothing salacious or offensive about the picture. It adds to the content of the article. Half the header pictures in WP should be so appropriate. JonRichfield (talk) 06:59, 12 November 2011 (UTC)
- JonRichfield, thanks. This is very well said.Dessources (talk) 20:30, 12 November 2011 (UTC)
- The comparision to Girraffes is completely disigenous. But do you know what, I'm tired of arguing... so I give up. The image is NOT the best image, the only reason to have it is because people want the nude, not because it actually adds value... not because it isn't POV. This image isn't POV as an image of giraffe's is POV... it has specific connotations of POV---the one's Dessources so elequently defined in Dessources defense of the nude... that it teaches a specific set of morals... that it shows an imaginary "state of mind"... and that it shows the "natural way." All of which are POV positions...---Balloonman Poppa Balloon 02:42, 13 November 2011 (UTC)
- I hope you really do mean it when you say "I give up." What has been disingenuous is all the continued attempts by you and others to change this right after a perfectly good RfC was closed. No new evidence has been presented. You just hoped to win when others got sick of it. I'm just glad I at least occasionally had the time to come here and point out the bad faith behaviour of those failing to accept the umpire's decision. HiLo48 (talk) 02:50, 13 November 2011 (UTC)
- No new evidence has been presented ---in the immortal words of Sherman Potter, "horsehocky."---Balloonman Poppa Balloon 14:54, 15 November 2011 (UTC)
- I hope you really do mean it when you say "I give up." What has been disingenuous is all the continued attempts by you and others to change this right after a perfectly good RfC was closed. No new evidence has been presented. You just hoped to win when others got sick of it. I'm just glad I at least occasionally had the time to come here and point out the bad faith behaviour of those failing to accept the umpire's decision. HiLo48 (talk) 02:50, 13 November 2011 (UTC)
The "cover" of this "book", an encyclopedia, is the home page. There are multiple pictures we don't put on the cover, but which the reader can find inside when that reader deliberately chooses to look for certain kinds of information. If the reader is dealing with the physiology she can expect to see pictures of the physiology, with out benefit of something that hides information.(olive (talk) 21:09, 11 November 2011 (UTC))
- Though I have some sympathy with that idea, I (along with several others at various times) did in fact make suggestions for suitable means, but those means would be along the lines of "Yo no like-a, yo no look-a!" The means should IMO be along the lines of making available an optional mode of surfing that does not present graphic items till requested. That mode does not (yet?) exist. Till it is available it is reasonable to assume that anyone wanting to look up "pregnancy" wants to know about... errr... (pregnancy?) and accordingly should be assumed to be working on the lines of "Yo like-a, yo look-a!" Otherwise there is no reasonable basis for including header pictures for anything. Cutlery? Heaven forbid! All those Freudian symbols, their points, hollows and cleavages... their shame not even decently covered with a napkin? The statue of liberty? No no! The suggestion of sewerage for all the visitors! A cowboy on a horse? (you fill in the blanks; I am blushing too hard!) I don't mind the idea of making a mode available for all the blushing Bowdlers, but I object most strenuously to the idea of distorting articles to accommodate their personal and various prejudices. JonRichfield (talk) 06:59, 12 November 2011 (UTC)
Implications of a unique problem
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Obviously pregnancy is the only substantial, encyclopaedic subject that could disturb sensitive people, right? (Ejaculation? What could be upsetting about someone ejaculating "Dear me!"? Onanism? Onan was biblical; that can't be offensive. Defecation? Errr... well. Sex... Oh all right!!! Forget what I said!) So it seems that there are maybe several subjects with biological connections that might call for explicit illustration, OK? Then when this pregnancy thing blows over, what is the bet that someone opens the same can of worms elsewhere? What fun, right? Bottom line (if you will excuse the expression): it seems to be a matter of real urgency to make available to sensitive people a mode in which they only need look at graphics if they ask for it. (Sane people who do not opt for the mode could carry on as before, and pant or drool over illustrations of nude giraffes and so on.) We have other useful optional modes, and this one seems to me a simple one to implement. Some folks might ask why we need anything like this in an encyclopedia intended for educated people; we don't What we need is a cheap and simple tool (oops!) for removal of a basis for complaint by the ineducable, so that the rest of us can spend our time more productively. How do I get this proposal (which is surely not new?) into an item on the project list for WP? Or does someone have a better idea? JonRichfield (talk) 07:52, 15 November 2011 (UTC)
I don't know what I said to give the idea that Conservapedia had anything to do with this. Have you visited it? In response to your remark, I did. Even if it were a reference source, or were free of possible offence, neither of which in in any relevant sense it could aspire to, its existence would not affect our problem here. Otherwise there would be no problem, right? But there really is a problem, right? After all, both of us are wasting time here, right? I spoke of the very contrary of CP, the specific avoidance of watering down content, paltering with truth, or haggling about sensitivities. Please explain how you see CP helping either WP or its editors or readers with any of those problems or the problem of handwringing over explicit pictures of flies mating or human skin. JonRichfield (talk) 09:25, 15 November 2011 (UTC)
Hi L2, I am afraid that I don't quite follow. Are you arguing that people should or should not be allowed to walk round nude in public? Or only in public parks with high walls, where there are signs warning people without thick dark glasses that this particular park permits nudity, but that if you read the signs then you are compelled to go in anyway? What do you mean "gratuitously graphic"? Is "graphic a modern abbreviation for "nude"? You mean graphic as in "Venus de Milo" or as in the giraffe at the head of the giraffe article? "Gratuitously graphic"? You take my breath away... Frankly, I am not sure I don't prefer T2's "big giant penis". If you really mean it that "the fact that there are other options available is irrelevant", then you leave me at a loss to know how to communicate with you. If I were to take you seriously, then I could not use a public lavatory (something that obviously you don't do, if I am to take your communication seriously) because my obscene exposure would visible to any passer-by peeping under the door; the fact that there are other options available, such as simply passing on without peeping, is irrelevant, right? Please rephrase more helpfully. JonRichfield (talk) 09:00, 18 November 2011 (UTC) Let us just take another vote. There is no effective dispute resolution process on WP. I have never yet seen anyone change their mind as a result of discussion. Martin Hogbin (talk) 20:55, 17 November 2011 (UTC) |
Compromise images
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I think the second image meets all our needs as a compromise, as it's asian (the ideal), has a bare belly, high quality image, and clothed. Be——Critical 21:39, 26 October 2011 (UTC)
- I think the second image might work, too. Enough of the body is visible to educate the reader as to how pregnancy effect the external physiology, yet for those concerned about complete nudity, there is enough coverage. Its a compromise-something in between the nude image and the completely clothed one. (olive (talk) 23:50, 26 October 2011 (UTC))
- Yes it is not bad. Wondering if the background could be cleaned up? Doc James (talk · contribs · email) 03:00, 27 October 2011 (UTC)
- I'm not sure, the license said something about no derivatives. But does that include cutting out the background, any more than it includes flipping image one above? Be——Critical 03:22, 27 October 2011 (UTC)
- The second image is going to be deleted. The license isn't compatible with Wikipedia policy. Eeekster (talk) 04:14, 27 October 2011 (UTC)
- I'm not sure, the license said something about no derivatives. But does that include cutting out the background, any more than it includes flipping image one above? Be——Critical 03:22, 27 October 2011 (UTC)
- Yes it is not bad. Wondering if the background could be cleaned up? Doc James (talk · contribs · email) 03:00, 27 October 2011 (UTC)
- Don't give up on it, the image N- I mean, the image custodians may delete it but the owner has been emailed. Be——Critical 08:05, 27 October 2011 (UTC)
Seems as if Image 2 has been deleted? Can someone confirm? Touch Of Light (talk) 19:26, 28 October 2011 (UTC)
- It's been deleted, but we may yet get permission. Be——Critical 19:42, 28 October 2011 (UTC)
The Asian image above is back (: Be——Critical 06:12, 29 October 2011 (UTC)
- Looks good to me. Now if we can just get people to put aside the RfC above and move to on discussing this image, which so far has had no opposition as far as I can tell.Griswaldo (talk) 16:37, 29 October 2011 (UTC)
- I like it too. And yes, hopefully we can move to this compromised version of an image which should satisfy everyone.(olive (talk) 16:47, 29 October 2011 (UTC))
I am opposed to this image. Pregnancy is about more than just a swollen belly; it induces changes to the breasts as well, which are best illustrated with a nude shot. Powers T 19:00, 29 October 2011 (UTC)
- Pregnancy is about more than that. In fact it's 99% about things happening inside the body so I'm not sure why there is such a focus on swollen bellies and changes of the breasts in the first place. I'm also unsure how you illustrate changes in the breasts in a shot that has no context for those changes. People who are unaware of these changes wont learn anything about them from a contextless image in the first place. So I don't see that as useful argument. I'm not opposed to the nude btw, I just think that it's impractical given the concerns raised by others, and the fact is that it doesn't show breast changes because there is no context so I don't think that's a good reason to overlook the concerns. Cheers.Griswaldo (talk) 19:32, 29 October 2011 (UTC)
- For the same reason we don't choose a shot of a woman who's, say, eight weeks pregnant and use that. Even without a comparison image, showing the appearance of a pregnant woman's body is the whole point of the infobox image. Powers T 20:17, 29 October 2011 (UTC)
- My point is specifically about the breasts, which you wouldn't know are swollen without a comparison image. You were arguing that somehow it is more informative to see the breasts and I'm saying I don't buy it. The Asian woman depicted above also shows the swollen belly. The noticeable difference is in the breast view. I'd like to hear a reasonable case for the need to show the breasts and I'm not hearing it.Griswaldo (talk) 20:42, 29 October 2011 (UTC)
- For the same reason we don't choose a shot of a woman who's, say, eight weeks pregnant and use that. Even without a comparison image, showing the appearance of a pregnant woman's body is the whole point of the infobox image. Powers T 20:17, 29 October 2011 (UTC)
- There are multiple comments, in weeks-long discussion, in the previous RfC that address full nudity. The focus of this thread was on a compromise image, something between full nudity and the fully clothed image being suggested in the second RfC. Griswaldo and others, could I suggest checking the archives for discussion points about nudity unless you already have, and could we please focus on this next step in the process which is about compromise. Perhaps, if there are further comments about full nudity a new section could be started leaving this thread to deal with the compromise images. The thought of more convoluted discussion is pretty daunting. Thanks for your help in keeping this focused.(olive (talk) 20:56, 29 October 2011 (UTC))
- It's some compromise when the anti-nudity folks get everything they want, and the people who want to show readers as many of the external traits of pregnancy as possible get little but scraps. Powers T 00:49, 30 October 2011 (UTC)
- There are multiple comments, in weeks-long discussion, in the previous RfC that address full nudity. The focus of this thread was on a compromise image, something between full nudity and the fully clothed image being suggested in the second RfC. Griswaldo and others, could I suggest checking the archives for discussion points about nudity unless you already have, and could we please focus on this next step in the process which is about compromise. Perhaps, if there are further comments about full nudity a new section could be started leaving this thread to deal with the compromise images. The thought of more convoluted discussion is pretty daunting. Thanks for your help in keeping this focused.(olive (talk) 20:56, 29 October 2011 (UTC))
The #2 image is fine and a great deal better than the previous two options. The filename is dreadful however, and should be changed. Can we please move on rather than rehash the same old arguments. Colin°Talk 22:29, 29 October 2011 (UTC)
- I agree that the present title is very awkward. How about, Pregnancy: Huang... her last name. Humanizes it a little. Any other ideas?(olive (talk) 23:07, 29 October 2011 (UTC))
- To me #2 image looks as if the breasts have been artificially covered exclusively to protect the sensitivities of those who cannot deal with nipples. It's actually a quite unnatural picture. Oh, and #1 is just too vague. Requires too much interpretation. When are the pro-censorship crew going to stop playing this game? HiLo48 (talk) 23:02, 29 October 2011 (UTC)
- Who exactly is the "pro-censorship crew?" What I see are editors with varying perspectives coming to some sort of compromise for the good of the entry. It also seems to me, in reading the talk page, that many of the people who are against the naked picture are not for censorship and are, like myself, quite adamant about keeping the nude image further down on the page. Cheers.Griswaldo (talk) 23:08, 29 October 2011 (UTC)
- Let's not mince words. Moving the current picture anywhere would be censorship. HiLo48 (talk) 23:24, 29 October 2011 (UTC)
- People are trying to put aside their ideologies to move forward. Others apparently aren't willing to. Oh well. Cheers.Griswaldo (talk) 23:28, 29 October 2011 (UTC)
- Some people may be prepared to compromise Wikipedia's standards and guidelines. I am not. I have not changed my views. I have made them clear several times above. That position must continue to count here too. I have every right to argue against a "compromise". We are pandering to the most persistent and loudest complainers who have more time than I do to repeatedly present a case here. In all this ongoing conversation we cannot ignore ALL the points made by ALL the posters above. Many have eased back on their efforts here due to having a life. The argument must not be won by those who don't. HiLo48 (talk) 23:55, 29 October 2011 (UTC)
- People are trying to put aside their ideologies to move forward. Others apparently aren't willing to. Oh well. Cheers.Griswaldo (talk) 23:28, 29 October 2011 (UTC)
- Let's not mince words. Moving the current picture anywhere would be censorship. HiLo48 (talk) 23:24, 29 October 2011 (UTC)
- Who exactly is the "pro-censorship crew?" What I see are editors with varying perspectives coming to some sort of compromise for the good of the entry. It also seems to me, in reading the talk page, that many of the people who are against the naked picture are not for censorship and are, like myself, quite adamant about keeping the nude image further down on the page. Cheers.Griswaldo (talk) 23:08, 29 October 2011 (UTC)
- To me #2 image looks as if the breasts have been artificially covered exclusively to protect the sensitivities of those who cannot deal with nipples. It's actually a quite unnatural picture. Oh, and #1 is just too vague. Requires too much interpretation. When are the pro-censorship crew going to stop playing this game? HiLo48 (talk) 23:02, 29 October 2011 (UTC)
- The top the woman is wearing is a common-style, strapless top worn in hot weather. We can safely assume many people do not want to be exposed nude all over the internet. No judgment. We 're trying to end a deadlock here so lets move on with that,eh?(olive (talk) 23:15, 29 October 2011 (UTC))
- Calling the outfit "common-style" is a cultural judgement. And this is not about asking people "to be exposed nude all over the internet." It's about finding a picture that demonstrates pregnancy well. And we already have one! Any deadlock here has been created by the pro-censorship crew seeking action that breaches Wikipedia guidelines. HiLo48 (talk) 23:24, 29 October 2011 (UTC)
- This kind of top can be purchased in almost any women's clothing store in many places in the world. Lets not make more of it than it is. Its just a top. Moving along...(olive (talk) 04:09, 30 October 2011 (UTC)).
- Gosh, good thing he didn't notice that she's also wearing nursing pads to keep her darkened nipples from showing through her common-style top. Gandydancer (talk) 01:07, 30 October 2011 (UTC)
- Calling the outfit "common-style" is a cultural judgement. And this is not about asking people "to be exposed nude all over the internet." It's about finding a picture that demonstrates pregnancy well. And we already have one! Any deadlock here has been created by the pro-censorship crew seeking action that breaches Wikipedia guidelines. HiLo48 (talk) 23:24, 29 October 2011 (UTC)
- The top the woman is wearing is a common-style, strapless top worn in hot weather. We can safely assume many people do not want to be exposed nude all over the internet. No judgment. We 're trying to end a deadlock here so lets move on with that,eh?(olive (talk) 23:15, 29 October 2011 (UTC))
- I agree with the second image. It's visually appealing at first glance and the model's angle of stance nicely displays her pregnant condition. The first image is too dark and doesn't illustrate the pregnant form as well.Coaster92 (talk) 03:25, 30 October 2011 (UTC)
- For crying out loud, folks. If the second pic had been in this article all along, we wouldn't be having this argument. I must remember that the next time I put a t-shirt on, I'm doing it "to protect the sensitivities of those who cannot deal with nipples". That's a good one. Look, we disagree about the lead and the desirability of degrees of nudity. There are minds here that won't be changing. The only way out of this mess is to choose a different picture from the previous two extremes. If, at this stage, you are still taking a "Moving the current picture anywhere would be censorship" viewpoint, then I suggest your presence here is not helping and if necessary, some dispute resolution action is required to end such blocking tactics. Let's see what other folk have to say. Colin°Talk 07:39, 30 October 2011 (UTC)
- Please just note that the minds here that won't be changing include those who refused to accept the result of the RfC a month ago. Sometimes I wonder why we bother with such formal processes here and don't just write article the way the editors with the most endurance want. HiLo48 (talk) 07:48, 30 October 2011 (UTC)
- HiLo/Powers, your language is all about us and them and how they must not be allowed to win. It has no place in a reasonable discussion where folk respect other people's opinions when they differ from your own. You've lost the bigger picture. We're here to build an encyclopaedia, to which this is a distraction and timesink, and as editors we need to get along. The "artificially covered" comment about her bandeau top is one of the most ridiculous statements I've ever seen on WP. Desperation. Powers wants to see "changes to the breasts" in the lead image, despite this not being apparent in the existing photo, nor likely to be apparent in any one image, and ignores for example that this alternative shows the linea nigra which isn't in the other. We can't show all signs of pregnancy in one image and this one amply shows the most identifiable sign, which is what the lead image is about. Add to that: this is a happy photograph of a woman on the day she goes into labour -- you can't get more pregnant than that ;-). Colin°Talk 11:30, 30 October 2011 (UTC)
- Thank you for ignoring almost everything I have posted on this page. (Of which, I suspect, you have read but a fraction.) And thank you for ignoring the unacceptable behaviour of those ignoring Wikipedia policies and guidelines. HiLo48 (talk) 15:33, 30 October 2011 (UTC)
- You have no idea how much of this interminable debate I've been following, from the start. The thing is, HiLo48, it's not about unacceptable behaviour or even well-reasoned anti-censorship arguments. Draw a line under those. Is this a good picture for the lead of pregnancy? Yes. If your only objection to this image is that it lets them win and that that their behaviour is thus not only unpunished but appears to have been successfully rewarded, then please please let it go. This might not be your preferred image but that's not a reason to object either. Would it help, to take a leaf out of consumer legal battles, for you to say that you can support or accept this image "under protest": you retain all your arguments and haven't backed down. Are you able to consider this image as a lead on its own merits separate from the previous issues and people? Colin°Talk 16:34, 30 October 2011 (UTC)
- If it's such a distraction and timesink, why not just leave the photo as it is and not worry about it? The problem is, when one side is "the photo is fine" and the other side is "the photo is unacceptable", there cannot be a compromise between those two positions. If the lead photo is changed, the pro-change group hasn't compromised anything. Powers T 00:55, 31 October 2011 (UTC)
- Thank you for ignoring almost everything I have posted on this page. (Of which, I suspect, you have read but a fraction.) And thank you for ignoring the unacceptable behaviour of those ignoring Wikipedia policies and guidelines. HiLo48 (talk) 15:33, 30 October 2011 (UTC)
- HiLo/Powers, your language is all about us and them and how they must not be allowed to win. It has no place in a reasonable discussion where folk respect other people's opinions when they differ from your own. You've lost the bigger picture. We're here to build an encyclopaedia, to which this is a distraction and timesink, and as editors we need to get along. The "artificially covered" comment about her bandeau top is one of the most ridiculous statements I've ever seen on WP. Desperation. Powers wants to see "changes to the breasts" in the lead image, despite this not being apparent in the existing photo, nor likely to be apparent in any one image, and ignores for example that this alternative shows the linea nigra which isn't in the other. We can't show all signs of pregnancy in one image and this one amply shows the most identifiable sign, which is what the lead image is about. Add to that: this is a happy photograph of a woman on the day she goes into labour -- you can't get more pregnant than that ;-). Colin°Talk 11:30, 30 October 2011 (UTC)
- Please just note that the minds here that won't be changing include those who refused to accept the result of the RfC a month ago. Sometimes I wonder why we bother with such formal processes here and don't just write article the way the editors with the most endurance want. HiLo48 (talk) 07:48, 30 October 2011 (UTC)
- For crying out loud, folks. If the second pic had been in this article all along, we wouldn't be having this argument. I must remember that the next time I put a t-shirt on, I'm doing it "to protect the sensitivities of those who cannot deal with nipples". That's a good one. Look, we disagree about the lead and the desirability of degrees of nudity. There are minds here that won't be changing. The only way out of this mess is to choose a different picture from the previous two extremes. If, at this stage, you are still taking a "Moving the current picture anywhere would be censorship" viewpoint, then I suggest your presence here is not helping and if necessary, some dispute resolution action is required to end such blocking tactics. Let's see what other folk have to say. Colin°Talk 07:39, 30 October 2011 (UTC)
HiLo, I agre with you and I also agree with Colin. The second RfC was out of process and clearly on the back of the first one an attempt to overturn the first RfC. However, as long as multiple editors vote for the new RfC implying endorsement of the RfC, I don't see what the rest of us can do but try to move towards compromise. It is after all a collaborative project. And I agree whole heartedly that in this case process failed, but would like to move on while trying to figure out how to make sure Wikipedia processes ultimately serve the articles rather than serve us as individual editors. Not easy. And my opinion of course.(olive (talk) 16:11, 30 October 2011 (UTC))
- The nude image we have is still probably the best one, however this image has advantages also, especially as it's more representative of worldwide racial features. It's pretty much a tossup with the one we have now, and so a good compromise. The nude image will be retained in the article. Be——Critical 18:26, 30 October 2011 (UTC)
IMO, image 2 is the worst among the reasonable proposals so far, as it is full of distracting details such as the green butterfly-wing-like leaf. It is simply a poorly composed amateur photograph. Hans Adler 22:28, 30 October 2011 (UTC)
- They're all amateur photographs, actually. But I can understand that we all have preferences.(olive (talk) 23:25, 30 October 2011 (UTC))
- Agree.---Balloonman Poppa Balloon 17:46, 1 November 2011 (UTC)
- I tend to agree with Hans; it looks a little too much like an amateur photograph. On the positive side, the woman at least isn't yet another Caucasian. I must say I am a little disappointed that we still have the nude image as the lead image. In the last RfC, there was a 3:2 consensus in favour of using the clothed image in the lead, and moving the nude image further down; and in the current one further up on this page, there certainly isn't a majority for the current lead image either (and I understand that some editors are boycotting that one). At the end of the day, we had a clear majority in favour of the clothed image, yet the change has still not been made. And we are still only showing Caucasians. --JN466 02:38, 4 November 2011 (UTC)
- Per the closing admin., if a permission issue was taken care of, which it was, the last RfC closed to a no consensus and by default the nude image remained in place. Within a short time of closing the first RfC, and once again dealing with the same two images anther RfC was opened. The first RfC was very long and convoluted and really unpleasant. Using another RfC on the heels of the first one to push this issue and while many editors were burnt out with the whole business is not how this process should work, in my opinion. As for the new RfC, it should stay open for thirty days, and then be closed by an uninvolved admin. For me personally, I feel the process was misused and so I don't feel right taking part which implies support of it. I do have some views on the images, but my main concern has to do with what is in my opinion, a misuse of process. Best wishes.(olive (talk) 03:11, 4 November 2011 (UTC))
- Agree 100%... and I'm a person who believes the image should be removed because I see it as detrimental to the purpose of this article. I think the image hurts the article for reasons other than simply that it's a nude... but I have a problem with reopening another RfC after the conclusion of the first in the hopes of getting a differentresult.---Balloonman Poppa Balloon 04:14, 4 November 2011 (UTC)
- Per the closing admin., if a permission issue was taken care of, which it was, the last RfC closed to a no consensus and by default the nude image remained in place. Within a short time of closing the first RfC, and once again dealing with the same two images anther RfC was opened. The first RfC was very long and convoluted and really unpleasant. Using another RfC on the heels of the first one to push this issue and while many editors were burnt out with the whole business is not how this process should work, in my opinion. As for the new RfC, it should stay open for thirty days, and then be closed by an uninvolved admin. For me personally, I feel the process was misused and so I don't feel right taking part which implies support of it. I do have some views on the images, but my main concern has to do with what is in my opinion, a misuse of process. Best wishes.(olive (talk) 03:11, 4 November 2011 (UTC))
Moving Forward with Asian Image
- The "Asian image" is actually well-lit and in-focus which all by itself makes it 600 times better than the "bathroom image". I still think the "dress image" is the most technically competent image, but I"m willing to support the "Asian image" as a reasonable compromise, if it means we can finally get the incredibly poor, fluorescent green-lit, fuzzy and out of focus technically lousy image currently on the article lede moved further down. Nandesuka (talk) 13:23, 6 November 2011 (UTC)
I disagree. This image is cluttered with irrelevant and distracting details and seems a vacation picture taken by an amateur. Much inferior to the current image. It's seems that the only reason for accepting a lowering of the standard of the lead image is that the nipples are not shown - which is not a valid reason for changing the picture. Dessources (talk) 23:11, 7 November 2011 (UTC)
- And we already have an RfC result confirming that. HiLo48 (talk) 23:33, 7 November 2011 (UTC)
- no we have not. We had an RFC end with no consensus, which is not support for a partiuclar position. Please don't misrepresent what the first RfC said.---Balloonman Poppa Balloon 20:04, 11 November 2011 (UTC)
- And yet again you misrepresent what has been said. That form of debate will never lead to consensus, only confrontation. HiLo48 (talk) 01:28, 13 November 2011 (UTC)
- What? The first RfC ended with the closing admin stating that if your took out the questions about licensing, then there is no consensus. That is the fact. The first RfC did not "confirm" anything... your insistance that it did is the misrepresentation of facts.---Balloonman Poppa Balloon 02:31, 13 November 2011 (UTC)
- You clearly don't, and won't, get it. It's not worth explaining such matters to people so obsessed. I will not waste my time. HiLo48 (talk) 02:40, 13 November 2011 (UTC)
- What? The first RfC ended with the closing admin stating that if your took out the questions about licensing, then there is no consensus. That is the fact. The first RfC did not "confirm" anything... your insistance that it did is the misrepresentation of facts.---Balloonman Poppa Balloon 02:31, 13 November 2011 (UTC)
- And yet again you misrepresent what has been said. That form of debate will never lead to consensus, only confrontation. HiLo48 (talk) 01:28, 13 November 2011 (UTC)
- no we have not. We had an RFC end with no consensus, which is not support for a partiuclar position. Please don't misrepresent what the first RfC said.---Balloonman Poppa Balloon 20:04, 11 November 2011 (UTC)
- Favor the asian women in the bandeau top. This is fine, let's just do this one and get it over with, OK? Good compromise! Herostratus (talk) 03:02, 22 November 2011 (UTC)
A couple more options
Fresh from flickr... Bare belly, breasts covered, no messy background like the Asian image above. Not adding to our racial diversity though. Calliopejen1 (talk) 06:28, 10 November 2011 (UTC)
- Stop wasting your time proposing new images. We already have an RfC result confirming that there is nothing wrong with the current picture. HiLo48 (talk) 07:51, 10 November 2011 (UTC)
- If that's what you take from the 21/3 consensus above, you're clearly living in an alternate universe. Calliopejen1 (talk) 13:41, 10 November 2011 (UTC)
- That is a complete distortion of the original RfC as well. The original RfC did not state that there was nothing wrong with the current image, it simply said that there was no consensus at this time. No consensus <> endorsement.---Balloonman Poppa Balloon 15:32, 10 November 2011 (UTC)
- No acceptable reason has ever been presented for commencing a new RfC so soon after the first. HiLo48 (talk) 18:42, 10 November 2011 (UTC)
- Agreed... and yet, nobody went to the original closing admin to have this one closed. Nobody went to ANI to have it closed. After a months of further discussion we've had real reasons to oppose the image presented, which cannot be simply be ignored.---Balloonman Poppa Balloon 02:33, 13 November 2011 (UTC)
- Why should I or anyone else have to take action because of your bad faith editing? There are no more reasons to change things now than there were two months ago. There are also no reasons for you to continue your acknowledged unethical behaviour of failing to accept the umpire's decision. HiLo48 (talk) 02:45, 13 November 2011 (UTC)
- No acceptable reason has ever been presented for commencing a new RfC so soon after the first. HiLo48 (talk) 18:42, 10 November 2011 (UTC)
Here's a nice Flikr image with the necessary license. [1] --Anthonyhcole (talk) 03:49, 17 November 2011 (UTC)
- There are no more reasons to change things now than there were two months ago. Wait, didn't I say that just above? HiLo48 (talk) 04:25, 17 November 2011 (UTC)
- I have posted very little, so my apologies if I get this wrong. I was surprised to see the naked women image so I read the talk page. My thoughts are these. We are going about the discussion backwards. First we should say, what is the most important things about pregnancy that we want to convey and then image conveys them. In my book, important information about pregnancy is something to the effect of 1) pregnancy is the 9 month process whereby a women carries an embryo/fetus as it grows from two cells to a baby, 2) the fetus and the women change in many ways throughout the pregnancy, the most obvious for the women being that her belly gets big and the most obvious for the fetus is that it goes from a sack of cells to a baby, 3) pregnancy ends when the baby is born. There are lots of other secondary bits of information that are less important to convey, like women's feet tend to swell, but these are not the core to understanding pregnancy. An image that calls attention to the non-core elements simply distracts from the core message of what pregnancy is. Doshwa (talk) 07:18, 23 November 2011 (UTC)
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- Have submitted the OTRS. --Doc James (talk · contribs · email) 14:40, 23 November 2011 (UTC)
Broken decision process
This strikes me as absurd - this whole page. This is the third "request for comment" I've received since mid-October, and in each case I've been utterly overwhelmed by the process I encounter when I get to the discussion.
No sane, productive, thoughtful person would have time for this, I'm thinking. I surely do not. The process is wrong, because it is so inefficient, and that fact alone will result in significant non-participation. To stake out a position, argue your point, then quit is reasonable. To counter argue is reasonable. It's what's happens next that's crazy: It just goes on and on. WE ALL HAVE MORE IMPORTANT THINGS TO DO THAN TO WASTE TIME THIS WAY. After a period of argument clarification, why is there not simply a vote?
Lovers of "consensus" fail to realize that [a] in many cases consensus is not possible, and [b] preservation of disagreement is actually a good thing, as it preserves diversity of perspective, and that give us a wider range of options for resolution of the next dispute that arises, [c] we have important work to do and cannot AFFORD such an unproductive expenditure of time.
I refuse to join this fray. I simply don't have time to wade through the sea of words.
This is a broken process...
Tom Cloyd (talk) 19:28, 10 November 2011 (UTC)
- A broken process that is the sign of a broken society. This is why this discussion is so heated. Dessources (talk) 10:55, 25 November 2011 (UTC)
- Agreed. HiLo48 (talk) 19:54, 10 November 2011 (UTC)
- HiLo, I'm surprised to see you agreeing with Tom's advocacy of voting. I'd have guessed that you were firmly of the opinion that WP:Voting is evil. WhatamIdoing (talk) 20:31, 10 November 2011 (UTC)
- Sorry. My brevity is at fault. I agree with almost everything Tom said, but not the voting. HiLo48 (talk) 22:04, 10 November 2011 (UTC)
The process I'm suggesting is two part: [a] frame the positions, with supporting argument and counterarguments; [b] vote, and get on with the work of improving article quality. Too much energy is lost in poorly structured, unproductive argumentation (it's not wholly unproductive, not at all - just significantly over-prolonged and chatty). It's sad to see the waste. We can do better than this.Tom Cloyd (talk) 22:56, 10 November 2011 (UTC)
- Of course it is absurd! But it is the old tiger-by-the-tail situation. If you drop it you capitulate to the forces of darkness. That is what they rely on. JonRichfield (talk) 07:09, 12 November 2011 (UTC)
Would someone please post a link to the other two RfC's mentioned by the OP? --Anthonyhcole (talk) 02:57, 13 November 2011 (UTC)
- Check the Archives box near the top of the page. HiLo48 (talk) 03:00, 13 November 2011 (UTC)
- Dec 10, 2010 (filed by Doc James): Talk:Pregnancy/Archive_3#Lede_image_again
- September 3, 2011 (filed by Doc James) Talk:Pregnancy/Archive_4#Lead_image_RfC
- October 21, 2011 (filed by Doc James – the very same day the previous RFC resulted in no-consensus when the permissions issue was resolved) Talk:Pregnancy#RfC:_Which_photo_should_we_use_in_the_lead.3F
- I maintain this is an abuse of process by "Doc James". Dreadstar ☥ 20:26, 13 November 2011 (UTC)
- Especially the most recent. It successfully sucked in a number of other anti-breast campaigners to continue arguing here, while many who thought the exercise was over moved on to other activities, without even knowing that debate was continuing here. This really is an out-of-place, unbalanced RfC. Nothing posted since that most recent, completed RfC should count for anything. It should all probably be deleted. HiLo48 (talk) 22:09, 13 November 2011 (UTC)
- I agree. Any suggestions on how to handle this? Dreadstar ☥ 22:44, 13 November 2011 (UTC)
- Especially the most recent. It successfully sucked in a number of other anti-breast campaigners to continue arguing here, while many who thought the exercise was over moved on to other activities, without even knowing that debate was continuing here. This really is an out-of-place, unbalanced RfC. Nothing posted since that most recent, completed RfC should count for anything. It should all probably be deleted. HiLo48 (talk) 22:09, 13 November 2011 (UTC)
- I think the first step in handling it is to realize that "no consensus" means no consensus either way, not no consensus to make a change. We need to have this settled. If further discussion helps us reach an agreement, then we should continue that discussion. WhatamIdoing (talk) 00:24, 14 November 2011 (UTC)
- That's an incorrect reading of WP:CON, "no consensus" means exactly "no consensus to make a change". Period. Dreadstar ☥ 02:57, 14 November 2011 (UTC)
- Perhaps you'll want to go read it again: "Some discussions result in no consensus. "No consensus" means that there is no consensus either way: it means that there is no consensus to take an action, but it also and equally means that there is no consensus not to take the action." WhatamIdoing (talk) 20:53, 14 November 2011 (UTC)
- In this case you're wrong. I've been dealing with the issue of consensus for many years and the basic fact here is that ther is no consensus for a change. Dreadstar ☥ 02:58, 15 November 2011 (UTC)
- Perhaps you'll want to go read it again: "Some discussions result in no consensus. "No consensus" means that there is no consensus either way: it means that there is no consensus to take an action, but it also and equally means that there is no consensus not to take the action." WhatamIdoing (talk) 20:53, 14 November 2011 (UTC)
- That's an incorrect reading of WP:CON, "no consensus" means exactly "no consensus to make a change". Period. Dreadstar ☥ 02:57, 14 November 2011 (UTC)
- I think the first step in handling it is to realize that "no consensus" means no consensus either way, not no consensus to make a change. We need to have this settled. If further discussion helps us reach an agreement, then we should continue that discussion. WhatamIdoing (talk) 00:24, 14 November 2011 (UTC)
- That's a direct quotation from the policy, in case you hadn't noticed.
- I agree that in many instances, "no consensus" produces a temporary or default action of no change, but that (1) isn't true for every case (contested admin actions have the opposite default), and (2) isn't relevant. Even your experience doesn't indicate that "no consensus" means exactly the same thing as "having a consensus to make no change and to stop talking about it". No consensus means no consensus. It does not mean that people are required to stop trying to find a consensus. WhatamIdoing (talk) 03:01, 16 November 2011 (UTC)
- The issue is one of sensitivity. Some people find nudity, even artistic nudity as in the lead image, to be inappropriate. Others do not. The others, are not offended by a picture of a pregnant woman with clothes. Thus, if a clothed woman is portrayed there will be no offense. The solution, in reaching a consensus seems quite simple. DonaldRichardSands (talk) 00:29, 14 November 2011 (UTC)
WhatamIdoing & DonaldRichardSands - This ongoing discussion is pointless. There can be no acceptable consensus from a discussion that excludes people who stopped discussing because the previous RfC was completed. No sane, reasonable person would have expected those who can't accept an umpires decision to be so disingenuous and unethical as to start anther RfC straight away, WITHOUT inviting ALL those who participated in the previous one. This is an out-of-place, unbalanced RfC. Nothing posted since that most recent, completed RfC should count for anything. It should all be deleted. HiLo48 (talk) 00:40, 14 November 2011 (UTC)
- I have no issue with your concern, HiLo48. I came in on a random RfC invite on the second round. I agree that those who took part in the first RfC should be part of this second round. What are the WP rules regarding RfCs? Is there a time after a "decision" before a new RfC can be engaged? DonaldRichardSands (talk) 00:50, 14 November 2011 (UTC)
- Not that I am aware of, and probably not. But there are some principles of good faith and ethical behaviour that must come into play. No reasons were presented for the new RfC. In every way it was just a continuation of the same arguments against the current image that were presented in the old RfC. HiLo48 (talk) 01:12, 14 November 2011 (UTC)
- continuation of the same arguments ---SMH again---Balloonman Poppa Balloon 16:48, 18 November 2011 (UTC)
Reasons where presented for the new RfC. The other one was closed first stating that the image should be changed due to concerns regarding copyright. These where than resolved and as they where resolved the close was changed to no consensus (not to keep the current image). Thus further discussion to determine consensus. Consensus so far seem strongly in favor of changing the image. If some do not wish to join in we do not force them. I am sure the closing admin will take all this into account.--Doc James (talk · contribs · email) 05:12, 14 November 2011 (UTC)
- Wrong, wrong, wrong, wrong, wrong. The closing admin did not tell you to continue arguing for something you didn't get in the first place. The posts since the closure have been the same anti-breast, pro-censorship people arguing exactly the same anti-breast, pro-censorship points they did before, which DID NOT convince the closing admin that the image should change, all countered by me and a small number of others pointing out the bad faith behaviour of those who wouldn't accept the umpire's decision. None of the previous posters against change were notified of the new RfC (again bad faith) so most of those with that viewpoint have not posted since that earlier RfC. This is simply NOT a valid, good faith RfC. To "win" an argument against no opponents proves nothing! Reminds me of those Eastern European elections during the 1950s, 60s and 70s where everyone voted for the single approved candidate. Nice approach. Not! HiLo48 (talk) 06:23, 14 November 2011 (UTC)
- This is simply mistaken. Many of us are arguing neither anti-breast nor censorship. I was the editor who got the before and after breast images in pregnancy. We will agree to disagree I guess. BTW no one was notified. If someone wishes to notify all the previous people involved I have no problem with this. Unable to due to current internet myself.--Doc James (talk · contribs · email) 06:27, 14 November 2011 (UTC)
- If there are no rules violated and if there are ethics and good faith to be considered then let's get it all stated and let the closing admin assess it all. It is possible to invite all the editors of the first RfC to come and give their thoughts again. But, I don't think that is necessary. The new closing admin can read up on the first discussion and include it all in his/her deliberations on this matter. If the new admin closer agrees that this second RfC is a violation of Good Faith and ethics, let's invite a statement to that effect. If new concerns have been raised, then the closing admin will decide with those also in mind. We are all interested in the good of this article and of wikipedia. DonaldRichardSands (talk) 06:37, 14 November 2011 (UTC)
- I'm sorry, but I completely disagree with that last point. People ONLY interested in the good of this article and Wikipedia would not behave in such bad faith. But people pushing a POV through unethical means would. HiLo48 (talk) 06:45, 14 November 2011 (UTC)
- You keep bantering about "bad faith" hmmm..... guess everybody who disagrees with you acts in bad faith?---Balloonman Poppa Balloon 02:36, 17 November 2011 (UTC)
- Not at all. I actually love a good debate with people who disagree with me but who play within the rules. HiLo48 (talk) 04:18, 17 November 2011 (UTC)
- The actual rules are that there are WP:No binding decisions—not even when an RFC results in "no consensus"—and that there is zero waiting period before restarting discussions, especially when previous discussions did not result in a consensus. So people are playing within the rules. They're just not giving up on the possibility of finding consensus. WhatamIdoing (talk) 16:47, 17 November 2011 (UTC)
- OK. I'll rephrase. I love a good debate with people who disagree with me but who play ethically. I suspect all the prudery is based on some strong conservative moral code. Does that code also allow you to win debates like this by attrition, rather than strength and soundness of argument? HiLo48 (talk) 19:58, 17 November 2011 (UTC)
- What your repeated allegations of bad faith and now name calling is ethical? The fact that you see this strictly about a nipple and either can't or refuse to acknowledge that there might be other reasons to change the image astonishes me. The only argument that I've seen YOU put forth is ILIKEIT and NOCENSOR.---Balloonman Poppa Balloon 20:04, 17 November 2011 (UTC)
- Since the new RfC began I have actually not debated the merits of any of the images. (Surely you've noticed that!) So I haven't said anything about liking any picture. I have certainly discussed censorship. Too many people here seem keen on that. HiLo48 (talk) 22:35, 17 November 2011 (UTC)
- Perhaps that is why I have found you to be particularly unhelpful in this thread... all you seem to do A) Whine about how this issue was decided (via a no-consensus) !vote in the previous discussion B) attack others for bad faith and other reasons, and C) whine about censorship without actually addressing the issues presented. You've added the most to this discussion without adding anything of benefit.---Balloonman Poppa Balloon 17:47, 19 November 2011 (UTC)
- Since the new RfC began I have actually not debated the merits of any of the images. (Surely you've noticed that!) So I haven't said anything about liking any picture. I have certainly discussed censorship. Too many people here seem keen on that. HiLo48 (talk) 22:35, 17 November 2011 (UTC)
- What your repeated allegations of bad faith and now name calling is ethical? The fact that you see this strictly about a nipple and either can't or refuse to acknowledge that there might be other reasons to change the image astonishes me. The only argument that I've seen YOU put forth is ILIKEIT and NOCENSOR.---Balloonman Poppa Balloon 20:04, 17 November 2011 (UTC)
- OK. I'll rephrase. I love a good debate with people who disagree with me but who play ethically. I suspect all the prudery is based on some strong conservative moral code. Does that code also allow you to win debates like this by attrition, rather than strength and soundness of argument? HiLo48 (talk) 19:58, 17 November 2011 (UTC)
- The actual rules are that there are WP:No binding decisions—not even when an RFC results in "no consensus"—and that there is zero waiting period before restarting discussions, especially when previous discussions did not result in a consensus. So people are playing within the rules. They're just not giving up on the possibility of finding consensus. WhatamIdoing (talk) 16:47, 17 November 2011 (UTC)
- Not at all. I actually love a good debate with people who disagree with me but who play within the rules. HiLo48 (talk) 04:18, 17 November 2011 (UTC)
- You keep bantering about "bad faith" hmmm..... guess everybody who disagrees with you acts in bad faith?---Balloonman Poppa Balloon 02:36, 17 November 2011 (UTC)
- This is simply mistaken. Many of us are arguing neither anti-breast nor censorship. I was the editor who got the before and after breast images in pregnancy. We will agree to disagree I guess. BTW no one was notified. If someone wishes to notify all the previous people involved I have no problem with this. Unable to due to current internet myself.--Doc James (talk · contribs · email) 06:27, 14 November 2011 (UTC)
This is a war of attrition staged by the pro-censorship, anti-breast people. The problem with Doc James re-submit of his RfC (whatever his good faith intentions) is that this provides an opportunity for this group to draw the lesson of their failure and learn to re-frame their arguments in such a way to make them appear less evidently pro-censorship, while at the same time, good faith editors who have spent a lot of time and efforts in the discussion do not feel the motivation to start all over again, and leave the debate. If we let this happen on Wikipedia, if such a strategy succeeds, then this will be clearly a sign that will provide encouragment to those who have a hidden agenda (be it religious fundamentalism or otherwise), and they will use it as precedent to stage and win further battles, gradually making Wikipedia the politically and religiously correct - but uninformative - encyclopedia that corresponds to their conception of knowledge, dominated by ignorant submission to dogmatic principles. Dessources (talk) 12:27, 14 November 2011 (UTC)
- And I say Doc James is a liar, he is clearly opposed to naked images in the lead of this article. picture is just as good ( but with clothing). Doc James is a Liar. Dreadstar ☥ 18:16, 14 November 2011 (UTC)
- There are WP mechanisms which can address this incident of calling for a second RfC. Those upset with this second RfC can rely on the second admin closer or they can report the difficulty to the Wikipedia:Administrators' noticeboard/Incidents. I am not sure it helps your case to call some one else a Liar. It is just as true to say, "this and this illustrates that he is mistaken or incorrect", perhaps "repeatedly incorrect." DonaldRichardSands (talk) 18:28, 14 November 2011 (UTC)
- Facts are facts, IMO Doc James is a liar. Period. Dreadstar ☥ 18:34, 14 November 2011 (UTC)
- And any editor who has used this second RfC to argue against the image in the lead has acted in bad faith. It should not require extra effort by those doing the right thing to keep things under control. And the only valid thing for a closing admin to now do is to ignore everything posted since the closing of the earlier RfC. I usually like to think that people will behave more ethically, but this page has proven me wrong. HiLo48 (talk) 20:03, 14 November 2011 (UTC)
- I assume you're frustrated but I don't think we can make blanket statements about the editors here. Several won't have known about the first RfC, and how many would have waded through the discussion on that RfC? The second RfC is now appropriately labelled I see, but that's very recent. The mistake was in an RfC dealing with the same issues so close on the heels of a first which can only have created confusion both for editors and efforts to reach a fair outcome in this discussion.(olive (talk) 20:24, 14 November 2011 (UTC))
- Liar or no liar, we have what I see as an unethical proposal to distort an article on a technical matter to suit the personal tastes of Mother Grundies (Mothers Grundy?) who don't care about technical material, but are happy to sabotage the objectives of the service on the basis of personal prejudice. That they follow with an equally unethical attempt to distort the decision process by perpetual filibuster like a lot of creation scientists exploiting one legal process after another. It reminds me painfully of how, in my country not many decades ago there used to be strict censorship laws; there was a committee that had the power to censor offensive material. What constituted offensive material? Public complaint. What happened if no one complained and the censor wanted it censored? He submitted a complaint as a member of the public. No problem; perfectly legal and logical! This entire obscene mess is calculated to repel all reasonable members from further participation. Remember what Shaw said about the unreasonable man; if being unreasonable is what it takes to repel the unreasonably unethical, then I call on the ethical members to be unreasonable enough to keep their fingers in the dykes until either the problem goes away till next time, or till a mechanism is defined to prevent such abuses of the processes now and in future. Whatever happens we cannot afford to permit ourselves to retreat in distaste and gratify such people by letting the principle go by default. JonRichfield (talk) 20:34, 14 November 2011 (UTC)
- HiLo, it's generally taken that posting the RFC to the usual place is, itself, an invitation to anyone who's interested. Since the previous RFC had a physical majority of about 3:2 against your preferred solution, then I'd have thought that not inviting the same voices back would have been your preference.
- However, if you really believe that everyone who commented in the previous discussions needs a personal invitation to participate again, then please feel free to WP:BOLDly issue those invitations yourself. If you invite 100% of commenters using the {{Please see}} template, then you should be immune to any charges of WP:CANVASSing. And—well, if it's not worth your time to do it, then presumably you understand why it's not been worth anyone else's time to do it. WhatamIdoing (talk) 21:02, 14 November 2011 (UTC)
- It can hardly be seen as non-disruptive to start a new RfC on the same question immediately after a former RfC resolves. In this case, the issue is hopelessly snarled if only because the very existence of the second RfC makes people feel that the issue is too divisive, and therefore the image ought to be changed. Thus starting the second RfC shoves people toward the desired result of changing the image. It is also an affront to the editors who participated in the first RfC and took the time to argue their case to be asked to come back here and do the same thing over again, especially in light of the nastiness which was allowed to be spewed during the arguments. In a word, disruption.
- (I am not accusing Doc James of intentional disruption, I am saying that disruption was the result) Be——Critical 04:36, 15 November 2011 (UTC)
You guys really need to dial down the personal attacks and assumptions of bad faith. What I see here is a clear consensus forming in the RFC above, and then 3 or 4 editors trying to derail that consensus on the basis that Doc James Is A Really Bad Person. That is, to put a word on it, completely shameful. Nandesuka (talk) 12:49, 15 November 2011 (UTC)
- I'm not sure how much you're aware of the details of the history here but FWIW, I think an RFC on the same issue less then a month after the previous RFC does seem a bit problematic in itself. However, given the exact circumstances here, as I outlined earlier, it's resonable to expect that another RFC was going to happen fairly soon. Personally I still would have waited 2 months or so just to give everyone a rest and to reduce the concerns of it being started so soon, but since it happened, I don't think yelling about how wrong this RFC is, is helping anything. Instead it would be best if everyone interested participated in the new RFC. For those who feel their view was already well explained in the previous RFC, they should feel free to copy and paste their comments to the new RFC (linking would make more work for the closing admin). Of course if the only thing they addressed in the previous RFC was related to the consent issue, then their view isn't likely to get much consideration in this RFC (ideally they'd remove anything relating to the consent issue rather then a completely blind copy and paste). Nil Einne (talk) 15:11, 15 November 2011 (UTC)
- Nandesuka - If any consensus appears to be forming it's because most of those who opposed change are not participating here because they did not expect such bad faith behaviour as starting a new RfC immediately after not getting their way in the earlier one. No new arguments have been presented for change. earlier participants were not invited. HiLo48 (talk) 04:32, 16 November 2011 (UTC)
- There is consensus that many different images are available to be used in the lead. As a result, I have added two, one of which you have reverted. This kind of stubborn refusal to compromise needs to stop. You can't insist on one and only one image in the lead when it doesn't have support for inclusion. Viriditas (talk) 00:01, 17 November 2011 (UTC)
- Does your decision to fail to wait for the closure of the current RfC, and just act unilaterally without consensus, mean that, like those who disagree with you about the image, you now see how inappropriate the RfC is? HiLo48 (talk) 04:21, 17 November 2011 (UTC)
- My "decision" was to test the repeated claims that those opposing the removal of the image from the lead were open to compromise and negotiation. As the two recent reverts by yourself and an admin demonstrate, there is no evidence for such a compromise, and the next time someone claims there is, I will gladly point them to the page history. The facts show that the burden of proof rests on those adding a controversial image that no recent discussion has found consensus to include. Considering that this "controversial" image is in no way important or historically significant, it becomes obvious that the easiest way to end the dispute is to replace the image. However, we have editors like yourself who are more attached to the conflict than to resolving it, and who are stubbornly insisting that the opinions of other editors don't matter. A close examination of this problem reveals that the people causing the conflict are the same set of editors who refuse to end it. Ironically, these very same editors are accusing the other side of bad faith. Viriditas (talk) 10:41, 17 November 2011 (UTC)
- Does your decision to fail to wait for the closure of the current RfC, and just act unilaterally without consensus, mean that, like those who disagree with you about the image, you now see how inappropriate the RfC is? HiLo48 (talk) 04:21, 17 November 2011 (UTC)
- There is consensus that many different images are available to be used in the lead. As a result, I have added two, one of which you have reverted. This kind of stubborn refusal to compromise needs to stop. You can't insist on one and only one image in the lead when it doesn't have support for inclusion. Viriditas (talk) 00:01, 17 November 2011 (UTC)
- Nandesuka - If any consensus appears to be forming it's because most of those who opposed change are not participating here because they did not expect such bad faith behaviour as starting a new RfC immediately after not getting their way in the earlier one. No new arguments have been presented for change. earlier participants were not invited. HiLo48 (talk) 04:32, 16 November 2011 (UTC)
You are sucking all the oxygen out of the room and the article is suffocating
Pardon for the clumsy metaphor, but this page is in the vicinity of 40,000 words and 161 double spaced pages. That's 80% to a NaNoWriMo novel. All of it is on what to do about a tiny, tiny portion of the overall article. So, could you please at least allow some other conversations to take place on making the article better. Among other issues: citations in the lead; a long image is the first chunk non intro content; are we sure that the trimester rubric is still a good one? Why doesn't the childbirth blurb mention anything about how the infant is actually being expelled from the womb and into the environment? (seriously, if you didn't already know what childbirth was, this article wouldn't help much) Should the article be explaining pregnancy in terms of gestation of the embryo/fetus/unborn/baby or the gravid/mother/woman? Considering this is about human pregnancy in particular, should the culture sections be put up further, or perhaps blended throughout the article?
My point is, any of these conversations is worth having. Way more worth having than a novel about imagery.--Tznkai (talk) 01:25, 22 November 2011 (UTC)
- Tznkai: I agree with you, but unfortunately this issue is a raw nerve; not just here but in several places on project. Until the greater problem is resolved this will most likely continue to flare. I'm not justifying it, mind you, just explaining. While I would like to think that we could all rationally sit down in some central location and hammer it out, you and I both know that's unrealistic. --Ludwigs2 04:54, 22 November 2011 (UTC)
- As I see it, the central issue is whether we allow subjective feelings -which run both ways in this case- to dominate article content, or whether we are to base our editorial decisions on more substantial issues. As it is, the crowd with the greatest emotion wins, as they will have the greatest persistence. Be——Critical 06:30, 22 November 2011 (UTC)
- I know that's how you see it, BC, but as I've said before you are failing to distinguish between cultural mores and personal feelings. There are people in the world who have strong personal feelings about nudity, in both directions (i.e., there are puritanical and prurient bastards in roughly equal numbers around us), but of the people who are neither excessively prudish or excessively voyeuristic the overwhelming majority prefer not to be exposed to gratuitous nudity in their daily lives. that is built into the standards of every culture of the world, and there's no explaining your consistent failure to acknowledge it. You want to make something that is easily and demonstrably objective into something subjective, and that's just plain baaaaad reasoning.
- As I see it, the central issue is whether we allow subjective feelings -which run both ways in this case- to dominate article content, or whether we are to base our editorial decisions on more substantial issues. As it is, the crowd with the greatest emotion wins, as they will have the greatest persistence. Be——Critical 06:30, 22 November 2011 (UTC)
- The central issue here is whether or not we are going to respect our readership. You believe we shouldn't; that we should effectively step on their toes whenever we darned well feel like it, whether or not we have a justification for doing so. I believe that we should avoid stepping on our readers' toes except where we have to to write a good article. That, at any rate, is the primary dimension of the dispute over this image: should we use a mostly unnecessary and somewhat inappropriate nude lead image simply because we can, and to hell with the standards of the real world? Or should we give in to the more-or-less universal standards that go against public displays of gratuitous nudity and use a more decorous (and roughly equal) clothed image? all the voluminous comments above are just derivative from that division. --Ludwigs2 08:28, 22 November 2011 (UTC)
- And that's a perfect display of the problem here. The image in question is NOT a "public display of gratuitous nudity". Misrepresenting others' positions via emotive use of unnecessary adjectives WILL NOT EVER HELP. Please stop now. HiLo48 (talk) 08:36, 22 November 2011 (UTC)
- L2, that was your most interesting post so far. Congratulations. There is are a few WP sites listing logical fallacies, and hundreds on the WWW in general. I am not about to recommend that you read any in parallel with that posting, because I am confident that you will not recognise any. Nor will I propose that anyone else do so, because they will recognise too many. Nor will I ask you to decide whether or not you are going to respect your readership in this forum. Instead I simply suggest that you try to respect the subject matter. JonRichfield (talk) 11:08, 22 November 2011 (UTC)
- Guys? (Girls?) This is exactly my point. You can't stop arguing and it is preventing all of us from getting anything else done at all. Even in a thread I started to point this simple fact out to you all. We cannot move forward unless all of you learn to shut the hell up and stop trying to win this fight.--Tznkai (talk) 08:41, 22 November 2011 (UTC)
- TK, I quite understand your desire; the problem is that as long as there is an issue that matters, it is betrayal to desert the ship while it still may be salvaged, in the sure knowledge that to do so is to leave it to sink or worse when the barbarians take over. (Would it have sunk if the civilised side took over instead, you ask? Well, it was doing very nicely, thank you, before the whole spat blew up!) As a matter of self-indulgence I would long ago have cut out of here; I have better things to do if certain other people have not, but if I, and other persons who respect the principles, functioning and objectives of WP and similar bodies, do let the point go by default, the result will not be a grubby compromise, but a total surrender to those who impose their strictures upon the engines and upon their value to those who use them. Those impositions are immoral, illogical and destructive, not to mention distasteful, and I urge those who have been holding out to continue in courage and alertness for the kind of sneak attack that some have been trying intermittently. What any compromise would have to resolve here would be not a photo, not its placement, but how one side could demand the right to read and to write and the other the right to demand that we read and write (and portray) what they choose to permit and in the way that they permit. This I say independently of any sort of attribution of motives; it is exactly what the grundys themselves have said in other words, words that they have constantly altered for their own convenience whenever cornered. Now TK, in full agreement with your preferences, I ask you how you suggest in which way the matter is to be settled by those in favour of the original image either capitulating or compromising. JonRichfield (talk) 11:08, 22 November 2011 (UTC)
- See, this is the hilarious thing: I actually agree with the sense of Jon's post even as I think his position is ridiculous. This isn't really about the image - this is about ego. We have an image that is (at best) mildly useful - if it were not controversial there would be no problem exchanging it with another image: that happens on other articles on a daily basis. But because it is controversial, editors like John, BC and HiLo dig in their heels: the mere fact that it is controversial (without regard to its use in the article) prevents its removal, because the removal of any controversial image is (for them) an act of surrender, a failure, a loss of face. Not that my position is any less stubborn, mind you, but my position is at least rational; All I've been trying to do is get them to see that removing the image from the lead doesn't harm this article in any significant way and makes the encyclopedia more accessible to readers.
- TK, I quite understand your desire; the problem is that as long as there is an issue that matters, it is betrayal to desert the ship while it still may be salvaged, in the sure knowledge that to do so is to leave it to sink or worse when the barbarians take over. (Would it have sunk if the civilised side took over instead, you ask? Well, it was doing very nicely, thank you, before the whole spat blew up!) As a matter of self-indulgence I would long ago have cut out of here; I have better things to do if certain other people have not, but if I, and other persons who respect the principles, functioning and objectives of WP and similar bodies, do let the point go by default, the result will not be a grubby compromise, but a total surrender to those who impose their strictures upon the engines and upon their value to those who use them. Those impositions are immoral, illogical and destructive, not to mention distasteful, and I urge those who have been holding out to continue in courage and alertness for the kind of sneak attack that some have been trying intermittently. What any compromise would have to resolve here would be not a photo, not its placement, but how one side could demand the right to read and to write and the other the right to demand that we read and write (and portray) what they choose to permit and in the way that they permit. This I say independently of any sort of attribution of motives; it is exactly what the grundys themselves have said in other words, words that they have constantly altered for their own convenience whenever cornered. Now TK, in full agreement with your preferences, I ask you how you suggest in which way the matter is to be settled by those in favour of the original image either capitulating or compromising. JonRichfield (talk) 11:08, 22 November 2011 (UTC)
- Guys? (Girls?) This is exactly my point. You can't stop arguing and it is preventing all of us from getting anything else done at all. Even in a thread I started to point this simple fact out to you all. We cannot move forward unless all of you learn to shut the hell up and stop trying to win this fight.--Tznkai (talk) 08:41, 22 November 2011 (UTC)
- I'm sorry to say it, but the only way this issue can be resolved effectively is through reason, and until we get past the stubbornness and the mindlessly irrational assertions of subjectivity to the place where we can discuss the matter reasonably it's not going to die. even if it were to stop here it would just restart again in the future, here or on some other article, and we'd go through the same thing all over again. I understand how frustrating that is for people on the sidelines, but unfortunately the decision-making processes on Wikipedia don't allow for any more sophisticated approach than irresistable-force-meets immovable-object; we're going to have to suffer through this test of wills merely to get to the point where the issue can be discussed and decided rationally, and given the level of emotional involvement… that will take some time. apologies. --Ludwigs2 15:57, 22 November 2011 (UTC)
"but of the people who are neither excessively prudish or excessively voyeuristic the overwhelming majority prefer not to be exposed to gratuitous nudity in their daily lives..." I simply don't believe it. Look at the ads on buses and you'll get a completely different picture. People love nudity any time they get any excuse to see it, and only the puritanical, in addition to loving it, have a negative reaction to it. It's not that I don't like what you say, Ludwigs, it's that you're dead wrong about what people want, and that's obvious to anyone who goes out in public and has their eyes open to all the public displays of gratuitous nudity. Only fringe components are against it. In addition, you consistently forget that the illusory "cultural norms" are different in different parts of the world. They are essentially subjective feelings which people claim to have but really don't, and even if they did have them, what do subjective feelings have to do with writing a good encyclopedia article? By allowing subjective feelings to determine Wikipedia content, you thus allow me and anyone else to push their own feelings onto the article- legitimately. You either have to say that's legit, or you have to embrace a different standard, which is what I've been advocating all along. So here's one logical fallacy you're using: you advocate for subjectivity as a way of deciding article content, then turn around and say the subject needs to be discussed and decided rationally, without emotional involvement. I say, let's do that, in which case we throw out all considerations besides what information the image conveys. Which image is, on the whole, more representative of "pregnancy?" Want to write a rule that on an article like this we go with the general standards of advanced medical textbooks per WP:MAINSTREAM? That would be fine. But don't pit one set of subjectivities against another. Let's even momentarily grant that you are the defender of the commonweal here: Wikipedia is based on the scholarly, not the common.
Tznkai, you are an admin, man up and call the disruption that this duplicate RfC represents and then we can take your calls for less argument seriously. Till then, our only other choice is to give up on what we believe is right for this article. Argumentation is all we have. Be——Critical 19:00, 22 November 2011 (UTC)
- There is so much bad faith in that comment it makes me want to puke. But meh, disregarding nearly every other issue, I just wanted to comment on this line: "Look at the ads on buses and you'll get a completely different picture". We like to be teased by half naked pictures on the sides of a bus because we can pretend that when they are actually naked they'll still look that hot. Sadly, push up bras are a lie. Still love 'em though.--v/r - TP 19:53, 22 November 2011 (UTC)
- Yes, condemn and stop the disruptive, bad faith editing by those who simply wouldn't accept the umpire's decision on the last RfC. HiLo48 (talk) 19:45, 22 November 2011 (UTC)
- (e/c)As much as I would love to cut lose and wield my almighty magic admin problem solving button, 1.) it doesn't exist and 2.) I've been editing this article too long. That whole "involved thing." Personally, my offered temporary solution, which is to remove the picture outright and put a kibosh on the whole discussion in the meantime. That lasted, what? 10 minutes or less? I am a volunteer. This is not my job, and I don't need bonus stress in my life, and I don't have the kind of police powers or editorial control that could actually solve this situation in a wave of my hand.
- You want me to man up? Here is the truth. You are all the problem. Every single one of you. LOOK AT THIS PAGE! Read it, from top to bottom, and then read it again. Imagine if you're someone who is sneaking onto Wikipedia during their lunch break to get a little editing done. Do their best to improve the collective knowledge of humanity for free. And this is what they get! If I could, I'd ban everyone here from editing this article for a year, and let a random group of middle school students write it. They'd do a better job for certain because we are getting nothing done at all!--Tznkai (talk) 19:48, 22 November 2011 (UTC)
- I have no problem with removing the lead image, then allowing the article to settle down for a specified period of time so that it can be developed, say 6 months, then presenting the multiple images that have been offered for the lead again. As an aside since the article is prebirth / pregnancy, birth and post birth content may only be peripheral to the article.(olive (talk) 20:18, 22 November 2011 (UTC))
- Olive, that may be the most sensible thing anyone has said in this discussion so far. I'd second that.
- I have no problem with removing the lead image, then allowing the article to settle down for a specified period of time so that it can be developed, say 6 months, then presenting the multiple images that have been offered for the lead again. As an aside since the article is prebirth / pregnancy, birth and post birth content may only be peripheral to the article.(olive (talk) 20:18, 22 November 2011 (UTC))
- Tznkai: none of us is the problem, truth be told. the problem in the idiotic decision-making systems we have on project, in which we protect the rights of people to be rude, arrogant, and stubborn and refuse to make any efforts to ensure that discussion is calm and rational. If you think any of us like this kind of nonsense, you're mistaken. But the system doesn't give us another choice.
- Bus stop: You confuse the fact that everyone has a sex drive with a desire to see gratuitous nudity in public. You show me one single society in the world - just one - where public nudity is a common, everyday experience for most people. Not cheesecake, not innuendo, not sultry - nude. Not even the ancient Greeks or the modern Swedes walk around nude as a cultural norm. Not eve San Franciscans do it, for heaven's sake, and people tolerate it there. Yes, many many people (myself included) would like to have more nudity in their lives, but most people have the common sense and common courtesy not to push the issue. --Ludwigs2 20:42, 22 November 2011 (UTC)
- No, the system may encourage dysfunctional behavior, but it does not mandate it. Everyone has the option to walk away. No one's life, fortune, or well being is at stake.--Tznkai (talk) 20:48, 22 November 2011 (UTC)
- Bus stop: You confuse the fact that everyone has a sex drive with a desire to see gratuitous nudity in public. You show me one single society in the world - just one - where public nudity is a common, everyday experience for most people. Not cheesecake, not innuendo, not sultry - nude. Not even the ancient Greeks or the modern Swedes walk around nude as a cultural norm. Not eve San Franciscans do it, for heaven's sake, and people tolerate it there. Yes, many many people (myself included) would like to have more nudity in their lives, but most people have the common sense and common courtesy not to push the issue. --Ludwigs2 20:42, 22 November 2011 (UTC)
- Olive, I'm happy with having a {{Main}} summary of Childbirth in this article. We don't need too much detail, but it belongs in the article and could be legitimately expanded beyond its current five sentences.
- Ludwigs, I think that Tznkai is not too far from the truth. Certainly not every editor who has commented is "the problem"—here I will single out Olive as an example of a positive contributor—but the bulk of the comments in the last few days have been pretty appalling. Several of them appear to be written by people who have mastered the art of creating a comment that is equal parts trolling and uselessness. I suspect that they then believe the rudeness was going to win friends and influence people (because we all know how well insulting someone's intelligence changes people's minds when we do it to their faces, so naturally the technique will be even more effective online). I'd be much happier if everyone decided that one comment a day was enough, or at least if they'd take their sniping off this page and carried on in the semi-private arena of their own talk pages.
- I think that several people here need to actually try out Tznkai's suggestion: walk away, at least for a day. See if the world stops spinning just because you weren't here to bait someone who disagrees with you. WhatamIdoing (talk) 20:56, 22 November 2011 (UTC)
- Agree to having no lead image. That is fine, since no image can adequately represent pregnancy. There are thus non-subjective informational reasons for having no image, and having the other images, including the current lead one, down the page. And I don't understand why TParis thinks I had bad faith. Be——Critical 21:13, 22 November 2011 (UTC)
- I have no problem getting rid of a lead image... but I suspect that the majority of the NOTCENSOR crowd will oppose that compromise.---Balloonman Poppa Balloon 21:17, 22 November 2011 (UTC)
- If you are certain the people you disagree with won't agree to a compromise, why are you proposing it as an acceptable compromise? Hipocrite (talk) 21:29, 22 November 2011 (UTC)
- Lets move on... By commenting here at all we all contribute to this... Lets see if we can get past the contention. Thanks for any positive comments in my direction, but I guess I'd better take it in the jaw like everybody else should. Not that I want to.. :o)(olive (talk) 21:38, 22 November 2011 (UTC))
- If you are certain the people you disagree with won't agree to a compromise, why are you proposing it as an acceptable compromise? Hipocrite (talk) 21:29, 22 November 2011 (UTC)
- (e/c)Hypocrite, it's called hope
- WhatamIdoing: that's kind of my point. it's easy to single out particular editors as being better or worse, but you have to recognize that there will always be editors on the troll; the problem is that our system (such as it is) is structured to empower certain kinds of trollish behavior and protect it from criticism or sanction. We say that we want to have a consensus system, but what we actually promote is a dissensus system, one which emphasizes polarized opinion, exaggeration, and confrontationalism. The general aim in discussions such as this is not to reach some rational compromise but to create sufficient hostility that the other side leaves the discussion in frustration (so that the 'silence equals consent' rule can be applied fruitfully for one side). and it works: our system is designed to foster that kind of behavior.
- I know I catch a lot of flack on project, but most of the flack I catch is due to the fact that I'm just not easy to intimidate: I will gladly sit in the middle of intense hostility and try to reassert some kind of rationality. Not that I succeed, mind you, but what choice is there? --Ludwigs2 21:55, 22 November 2011 (UTC)
- I suggest that tooting your own horn like this is unhelpful. Hipocrite (talk) 21:56, 22 November 2011 (UTC)
- Thanks for the suggestion. now stop trolling me and do something productive. --Ludwigs2 23:33, 22 November 2011 (UTC)
- I suggest that tooting your own horn like this is unhelpful. Hipocrite (talk) 21:56, 22 November 2011 (UTC)
- I didn't propose it... but would accept it if other would... I just don't think HiLo who has vowed not to compromise will buy into it... nor do I expect a few others to.---Balloonman Poppa Balloon 23:09, 22 November 2011 (UTC)
- How can I compromise on my position? I see nothing wrong with the naked image. You want it removed. I see no compromise position. HiLo48 (talk) 01:32, 23 November 2011 (UTC)
- Support is for moving the image to the section on "trimesters" rather than removing it.Doc James (talk · contribs · email) 08:44, 24 November 2011 (UTC)
- Really, I want it removed???? Please show me a single post (except where I give a weak support to a proposal I knew would fail) where I have advocated REMOVING the image? I have consistently stated that I believe the image should be MOVED and provided reasons besides the mere nudity for moving it. I believe I am the third person whom you've mischaracterized in that way.---Balloonman Poppa Balloon 08:09, 28 November 2011 (UTC)
- How can I compromise on my position? I see nothing wrong with the naked image. You want it removed. I see no compromise position. HiLo48 (talk) 01:32, 23 November 2011 (UTC)
RfC: Which photo should we use in the lead?
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Which photo should we use in the lead? Doc James (talk · contribs · email) 06:10, 21 October 2011 (UTC)
By my count 38 of !voters prefer image 1, and 15 prefer image 2. There were a smattering of !votes for other options as well, and lots of discussion. In the interest of harmony, please respect this close and now have a discussion/search for some other image.--Jimbo Wales (talk) 10:54, 28 November 2011 (UTC) |
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RfC extensionSince Nil Einne has recently notified editors about the RfC it should probably be extended to accommodate any of those editors who wish to vote.(olive (talk) 14:53, 21 November 2011 (UTC))
How about we leave it open until Dec 2nd? Do people feel that is enough time for those notified to comment? I will than post at the AN for an admin to rule on the outcome.Doc James (talk · contribs · email) 06:50, 25 November 2011 (UTC)
Whatever the rights and wrongs of it, we are where we are. If there's been any breach of process, the closing admin will take that into account. Dec 2nd seems fine, enough time for any polishing of arguments, while prolonging this episode no more than necessary. Uniplex (talk) 11:54, 25 November 2011 (UTC)
Support image 1
Support image 2
Don't care
contribs · email) 06:38, 25 November 2011 (UTC)
Neither image(Option added after discussion started)
Wikipedia's Readership
I am offended by the idea of covering up when the nudity is not sexual and nobody will be harmed by it. I have a family. Are my values family values? HiLo48 (talk) 19:43, 22 November 2011 (UTC) Discussion/2I propose hatting this, since making a new RfC over an issue just addressed by a recently closed RfC is inappropriate. Be——Critical 06:25, 21 October 2011 (UTC)
Didn't we just have this RfC? I'll add my vote, but I believe that sufficient page ownership issues have been demonstrated to begin an ArbCom case over this. I'll look into that and begin the process later today. --Ludwigs2 12:31, 21 October 2011 (UTC)
Opening yet another RFC immediately after the last one closed is just disruption at this point. Dreadstar ☥ 15:09, 21 October 2011 (UTC)
A 2/3 majority seems to have been discounted do to the previous issue of copyright. As this has been solved and is no longer an issue hopefully discussion can be more clear and this time we can come to a consensus one way or the other rather than "no consensus". The copyright issue was the justification to petition the closing admin for "no consensus" call by some of those involved [5]. As I stated previously both images have spent a fair bit of time in the lead and their is not really an "original" image to return to. We are now making some progress. This RfC is a chance to resolved this issue. There hopefully will be no complaints / disruption halfway through regarding the manner in which the question is posed. This will be easier than spending 6 month at arbcom. Image two BTW has also had its background improved. Thus for all these reason please give it another chance. Doc James (talk · contribs · email) 22:32, 21 October 2011 (UTC)
Being uninvoled in this issue thus far (AFAIK), perhaps my comments will help. I was concerned when I see another RFC was started so soon after the previous on the same issue was closed since it sounds like an attempt to !vote until you get it right and also risky achieving an outcome by !voter fatigue. But reading what's been said here and checking the RFC, I see the problem. I agree that the outcome of the previous RFC was the nude image should be kept due to the lack of a consensus for a change. However it also seems clear that some people objected primarily because of concern of consent at the time. It doesn't automatically follow that these people will prefer to keep the nude image when consent wasn't an issue unless they clearly expressed such a preference and it seems some at least did not. Unfortunately then, I would suggest the first RFC was a bit of waste of time since it was unfortunately poorly formulated or thought out. People weren't clearly asked to express a preference beyond consent issues and the consent issues were not clarified before the RFC. Perhaps more time lag to allow people to 'recuperate' as well as to search for more images options (since having a new RFC every time a new image is found which some feel is better is problematic) would have been advisable but ultimately in this particular case, it seems that the issue did need to be revisited soonish to see if there was consensus to change the image to the non nude one when consent wasn't at play. Nil Einne (talk) 15:49, 5 November 2011 (UTC) Please stop edit warringReally, guys: Could we please all agree that getting the Right™ image into the lead today is just not that important? Please? WP:There is no deadline, not even for restoring the One True™ Pregnant Woman Image to the lead. WhatamIdoing (talk) 02:40, 22 October 2011 (UTC)
I have added a postscript to my closing statement, which should be unnecessary, but anyway: [7] Anyone seeking to remove the nude from the infobox will need consensus to do so and that consensus does not presently exist. --Mkativerata (talk) 04:48, 22 October 2011 (UTC)
Partially NudeWhy does the image have to be fully nude or fully clothed? We can't find any expectant mother to pull her shirt up over her belly for a picture?--v/r - TP 02:47, 22 October 2011 (UTC)
There were multiple alternatives offered in this discussion. Please check the archives. Further, this discussion has become so desperate that the closing admin is now being attacked. Where next? I(olive (talk) 02:58, 23 October 2011 (UTC))
Support hattingBecause the people who "voted" against the clothed image have refused to "vote" in this new RfC, and this is making the supports pile up for one side of the argument. Then one admin will count the votes like it was a democracy, and the system will have been gamed. --Enric Naval (talk) 18:36, 22 October 2011 (UTC)
Yes, that's the reason the nude image is still there, it is not a reason to close a new discussion. I know how consensus works.--v/r - TP 22:08, 22 October 2011 (UTC)
Put me on Coke (Cola) and I'd be the same way. Waaaay too fast. The closing admin dealt with the issues and vote count. I didn't. His comments are the bottom line here, not any other argument. He clearly stated that if the permission issue was dealt with by default we revert to no consensus to change the image, and there was by a general agreement over time consent to leave that nude image in the lead which is why there was an RfC in the first place. If there had been agreement to remove the nude image at any time it would have ben replaced. Believe me there were multiple tries to remove it. Had there been consensus to remove, we'd have another image and no RfC. My concern isn't with the images, either one. My concern is with manipulation of process. And nah (:o), I'm not condemning anyone to anything. I won't support a process that ignores part of the process itself-the closing admin., and I have concerns given the article history about the editor who began both RfCs. While I have a preference for an image, that was never enough reason for me to either spend multiple hours debating it, or now compromise my own integrity in an implied support of something I think is wrong. In terms of image selection, subjective views on this are so engrained in the editors here, I don't see compromise. We have to realize that there is nothing objective about any of this except the uninvolved comment of the closing admin. Whether I like his comment or not, his word trumps my and any other opinion.... and its all opinion. I suggest a new image since there was no true consensus per the RfC for either image. what we have inn place is there by default. It takes time and effort to clear new ground but that would be the fair thing to do, not having another RfC. Many editors who voted in the past may not even be aware this is all happening again. And many won't want to deal with it. I'd like to start again given some time. That's my story and I'm stickin' to it.(olive (talk) 17:13, 24 October 2011 (UTC))
I am not arguing against the use of the nude image just that the nude image would be better placed lower in the article.Doc James (talk · contribs · email) 14:37, 26 October 2011 (UTC)
Mirror image not allowedNote that image 1 is not allowed on English Wikipedia, per MOS:IMAGES where it says "images should not be reversed" for mere layout preferences. The original USDA image has the pregnant woman facing right, not left.
The RfC cannot rule in favor of a disallowed image. Binksternet (talk) 21:22, 25 October 2011 (UTC)
It seems to me that it is not right to do a mirror reversion of some person's image without obtaining his/her permission. The reversed image presents as the person's left side what is actually his/her right side. It is therefore (slightly) deceptive, thus this should not be done without the person's consent. Dessources (talk) 22:33, 25 October 2011 (UTC)
Support BOTH imagesRFC response. I think both images are good and I think they complement each other in general and in the context of the article. Include them both. It is the simplest, most pleasing and most informative option. I cannot imagine the sinkhole behind the eyes of anyone who finds either picture in the slightest degree prurient or offensive, and I cannot support impoverishing the article's content to gratify such people. If anyone is in doubt about options, go and read some of the discussion of the Suicide and Ejaculation articles. A lot of options are kicked around there and I don't see where I am to get the time to deal with every nitwit who gets a guilt complex every time he gets the itches from the sight of human skin or human realities. JonRichfield (talk) 17:51, 31 October 2011 (UTC)
Yes I to have a very big issue with those editors who do want breasts banned no matter what. At least we are in agreement with this.Doc James (talk · contribs · email) 05:59, 27 November 2011 (UTC)
Thats an evasion, and an exaggeration, and even if it wasn't, you *are* here to cooperate. Or you'd better be. Agreement is not required, but cooperation with others is. Wikipedia is a collaborative project. This article is a collaborative project. However aggressive or passionate we are, however much we disagree, we also have to cooperate. It isn't an exaggeration that your attitude, rhetoric and pervasive disrespect has corroded the quality of this discussion and this article, and you are going to stop.--Tznkai (talk) 07:50, 27 November 2011 (UTC)
Have contributors in the previous RFC been notified?Particularly as the previous RFC had quite a lot of respondents and was so recent, it would IMO be wise to notify them with a neutrally worded message of this new RFC with some explaination for why a new RFC is being held so soon as the previous one (consensus was unclear when concerns over consent issues were excluded and not everyone expressed an opinion if consent issues were resolved). I suggest some discussion be held here over the wording to avoid concerns of WP:Canvassing but it's resonably common to inform previous contributors to an RFC (or similar) on the same issue. Nil Einne (talk) 14:36, 10 November 2011 (UTC)
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ANI
Since a lot of the reason why I decided to open an ANI report against HiLo occured in the closing minutes of the section dealing with supporting Both Images, I wanted to let everybody know that I have now opened a case against him for his appalling behavior here.---Balloonman Poppa Balloon 12:38, 28 November 2011 (UTC)
- I'm having trouble finding your report; a link would be helpful. While I'm here, I find Jimbo's pure vote-counting "consensus"-finding to be a farce. Wikipedia is not a democracy. Powers T 19:25, 28 November 2011 (UTC)
- It appears to be at WP:ANI#HiLo_and_Pregnancy_Ban_Proposal. WhatamIdoing (talk) 20:51, 28 November 2011 (UTC)
Moving, not removing
Since Baseball Bugs has moved the nude image to the ===Second trimester=== section (for which I believe there is general support), I have once again added an educational caption to it. WhatamIdoing (talk) 20:48, 28 November 2011 (UTC)
- No problem, context makes a world of difference.---Balloonman Poppa Balloon 21:54, 28 November 2011 (UTC)