Why We Can't Sleep: Women's New Midlife Crisis is a 2020 non-fiction book by Ada Calhoun. It builds upon her essay for O, The Oprah Magazine, "The New Midlife Crisis for Women".[1] Calhoun interviewed more than 200 women and studied social trends to identify new roadblocks for Generation X women.[2] The book was published on January 7, 2020, by Grove Press.[3]
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| Author | Ada Calhoun |
|---|---|
| Language | English |
| Subjects | |
| Publisher | Grove Press |
Publication date | January 7, 2020 |
| Publication place | United States |
| Media type | Print (Hardcover) |
| Pages | 288 |
| ISBN | 978-0-8021-4785-1 |
| 305.2440973 | |
| LC Class | HQ1059.5.U5 C35 2020 |
Overview
editWhy We Can't Sleep is a book by Calhoun about Generation X women and their struggles, sometimes leading to a midlife crisis, including divorce, debt, unstable housing, and career development.[4] It builds upon her essay for O, The Oprah Magazine, "The New Midlife Crisis for Women". Calhoun interviewed more than 200 women across America about their experiences as the generation raised to "have it all." She found that many felt exhausted and overwhelmed from financial and housing stress, under or over-working in their careers, caregiving, and parenting. She learned how Generation X women responded and coped with these struggles physically and mentally, incorporating research from the Center for Economic and Policy Research and Harvard University's Equality of Opportunity Project.[5]
After the book's release, she expanded on some foundational arguments of the book in online editorials, including caregiving[6] and menopause.[7]
Reviews
editWhy We Can't Sleep: Women's New Midlife Crisis has received generally favorable pre-publication reviews. Library Journal said, "Her research offers women ways to look at but not devalue their own experiences; she addresses the fact that women often minimize their own struggles instead of recognizing how their lack of sleep, along with other physical and mental pressures, constitute legitimate crises in their own right..." Publishers Weekly said, "Calhoun persuasively reassures Gen X women that they can find a way out of their midlife crises by 'facing up to our lives as they really are'. Women of every generation will find much to relate to in this humorous yet pragmatic account..." Vogue,[8] Real Simple,[9] Parade,[10] New York Times,[11] and O, The Oprah Magazine[12] highlighted Why We Can't Sleep as one of the most anticipated books to read in 2020.
Post-publication reviews were mixed. The New York Times Book Review’s Curtis Sittenfeld called Calhoun "a funny, smart, compassionate narrator…taking women’s concerns seriously" but also "wished Calhoun had included fewer women’s stories but gone into those stories in greater detail."[13] The Wall Street Journal's Emily Bobrow gave the book mixed reviews, finding "many of its grumbles reassuringly familiar" but calling the book "a little whiny" and stating that Calhoun is "not above cherry-picking statistics."[14] The book had a 3.86/5 rating on Goodreads As of March 2020[update].[15]
References
edit- ^ "The New Midlife Crisis for Women: Why (and How) It's Hitting Gen X Women". O, The Oprah Magazine. Retrieved December 21, 2019.
- ^ "Why We Can't Sleep: Women's New Midlife Crisis (Press Release)" (PDF). Ada Calhoun. Retrieved December 21, 2019.
- ^ "Why We Can't Sleep: Women's New Midlife Crisis". Grove Atlantic. Retrieved December 21, 2019.
- ^ "Why We Can't Sleep: Women's New Midlife Crisis". Library Journal. Retrieved December 19, 2019.
- ^ "Why We Can't Sleep: Women's New Midlife Crisis". Publishers Weekly. Retrieved December 19, 2019.
- ^ "Gen-X Women Are Caught in a Generational Tug-of-War". The Atlantic. 7 January 2020. Retrieved January 21, 2020.
- ^ "That Time Middle-Aged TV Stars Got to Act Their Age". Dame Magazine. 7 January 2020. Retrieved January 21, 2020.
- ^ "The 22 Best Books to Read This Winter". Vogue. 23 October 2019. Retrieved December 19, 2019.
- ^ "Real Simple's Most Anticipated Books of 2020". Real Simple. Retrieved December 19, 2019.
- ^ "Add These to Your List-January Book Releases You'll Want to Pre-Order Now". Parade. Retrieved December 19, 2019.
- ^ "10 Books to Watch For in January". The New York Times. 23 December 2019. Retrieved January 21, 2020.
- ^ "The 30 Most Anticipated Books of 2020 (so Far)". O, The Oprah Magazine. Retrieved January 21, 2020.
- ^ "Gen X Women: More Opportunities, Less Satisfaction?". The New York Times. 7 January 2020. Retrieved January 21, 2020.
- ^ Bobrow, Emily (January 6, 2020). "'Why We Can't Sleep' Review: Uncertain at a Certain Age". The Wall Street Journal.
- ^ "Why We Can't Sleep: Women's New Midlife Crisis by Ada Calhoun". Goodreads. Retrieved March 1, 2020.